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Topic: Ex's
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Tue 06/10/08 09:32 AM
Okay so I care for my ex, even though he beat me and put me in the hospital and a million other things, at one point he was nice. But my question is have you ever had an ex you could be friends with after the relationship ended?

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Tue 06/10/08 09:33 AM
yes but i would not be that close to them!!!

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Tue 06/10/08 09:33 AM
i try to remain friends with all my ex's. makes booty calls easier that waylaugh laugh

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Tue 06/10/08 09:34 AM
nope...an ex is an ex for a reasondrinker

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Tue 06/10/08 09:37 AM
I am good friends with both of my living exes, but I would not be if they had ever laid a hand on me, for sure! noway

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Tue 06/10/08 09:38 AM

Okay so I care for my ex, even though he beat me and put me in the hospital and a million other things, at one point he was nice. But my question is have you ever had an ex you could be friends with after the relationship ended?
you still care for someone who beat you and put you in the hospital?noway

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Tue 06/10/08 09:39 AM

Okay so I care for my ex, even though he beat me and put me in the hospital and a million other things, at one point he was nice. But my question is have you ever had an ex you could be friends with after the relationship ended?


I had a buddy who once owned a pit bull. When his son was born, friends told him to lose the dog. One day, the dog kills the family cat. Few months later, the dog chomps on his package and darn near does a Lorena Bobbit on him.

In your case, I'd say lose him. Next time, it might not be the hospital but the graveyard.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:39 AM


Okay so I care for my ex, even though he beat me and put me in the hospital and a million other things, at one point he was nice. But my question is have you ever had an ex you could be friends with after the relationship ended?
you still care for someone who beat you and put you in the hospital?noway


He also was a good guy who supported me through my diagnosis as a person with BPD and just couldn't handle it.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:39 AM

i try to remain friends with all my ex's. makes booty calls easier that waylaugh laugh

I keep the booty calls and ex's separatedrinker drinker drinker

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Tue 06/10/08 09:40 AM
I was until I left home. Now I just sit here and stalk people on teh intrawebz!smokin

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Tue 06/10/08 09:40 AM



Okay so I care for my ex, even though he beat me and put me in the hospital and a million other things, at one point he was nice. But my question is have you ever had an ex you could be friends with after the relationship ended?
you still care for someone who beat you and put you in the hospital?noway


He also was a good guy who supported me through my diagnosis as a person with BPD and just couldn't handle it.
oh.......yeah,no one else would do that!laugh

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Tue 06/10/08 09:41 AM
Yes... But never one that would beat me. I don't think a friendship is worth another trip to the hospital even if he swears he'll change. But good luck!

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Tue 06/10/08 09:43 AM
yep...my exhusband is one of my best friends (2nd hubby, yep thats right...twice! lol)

we were best friends that should have never gotten married. he is an awesome guy!!!

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Tue 06/10/08 09:43 AM




Okay so I care for my ex, even though he beat me and put me in the hospital and a million other things, at one point he was nice. But my question is have you ever had an ex you could be friends with after the relationship ended?
you still care for someone who beat you and put you in the hospital?noway


He also was a good guy who supported me through my diagnosis as a person with BPD and just couldn't handle it.
oh.......yeah,no one else would do that!laugh


He was there when my mother, father, sisters all flaked, then he flaked, at least I was in a better mental state when he did it.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:44 AM

Yes... But never one that would beat me. I don't think a friendship is worth another trip to the hospital even if he swears he'll change. But good luck!
yeah......like what does he get for like say....running you over with his car?!laugh

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Tue 06/10/08 09:44 AM
Nope not friend especially with my ex husband. Once the connection is gone its over.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:47 AM
Yes, there is one I am actually friends with. It is possible, but I don't consider it an expectation. I saw my parents be good friends for years, but his re-marriage sorta quashed that. I find that to be the case a lot.... I am friendly with them until a new romance comes in and then things get awkward. I'm okay with that. As to my ex-husband, well I used to be friends with his wife.... enough said. Long story.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:50 AM
Sorry that happened lilith.

I was just wondering cuz ex is asking to be my friend and tells me he loves me and only wants whats best for me.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:52 AM





Okay so I care for my ex, even though he beat me and put me in the hospital and a million other things, at one point he was nice. But my question is have you ever had an ex you could be friends with after the relationship ended?
you still care for someone who beat you and put you in the hospital?noway


He also was a good guy who supported me through my diagnosis as a person with BPD and just couldn't handle it.
oh.......yeah,no one else would do that!laugh
a real heronoway

He was there when my mother, father, sisters all flaked, then he flaked, at least I was in a better mental state when he did it.

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Tue 06/10/08 09:57 AM
yes to that...we dated for eight months when we first met but have been close friends for ten years.

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