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Topic: You Know What
MikeOxbig's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:37 PM
I'm sick of dead beat dads giving the good dads a bad name. Today at my sons birthday, that my ex had at her friends I got into an arguement with these girls about being a bad father. I got slapped and told that I should leave......and then my ex jumped in and told these ladies off. I found out they are pissed at this one girls ex because he is a dead beat. She over heard a conversation about a guy and assumed it was me because my ex was talking about this guy. Ya I do everything I possibly can for "the great stink", and my ex she knows that she can call me anytime of the day or night if they have any problem. I get him everyweekend and pretty we do petty much everything you could do with a 4 year old than u can do. now does that sound like a dead beat dad to u..

rush2001's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:39 PM
No it sounds like you are doing a very good job.

writer_gurl's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:41 PM
Keep up the good work!!flowerforyou

I was born with a dead beat dad and now he is just considered "Sperm Donor"

heartofgold321's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:41 PM
Screw what other people think! as long as your son knows Your always there for him thats all that matters. drinker

SexyPuppy4life's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:44 PM
Thats great that you are there for your son. I wish my son's father was around for him, even when I was with his father he would ***** about doing something for him no matter how little it was, and my son's only 2yrs old.

Winx's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:45 PM
What?! An argument and a slapped face at your son's birthday party? Did any of the children see this?

robert1652's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:45 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Sat 06/14/08 10:46 PM

I'm sick of dead beat dads giving the good dads a bad name. Today at my sons birthday, that my ex had at her friends I got into an arguement with these girls about being a bad father. I got slapped and told that I should leave......and then my ex jumped in and told these ladies off. I found out they are pissed at this one girls ex because he is a dead beat. She over heard a conversation about a guy and assumed it was me because my ex was talking about this guy. Ya I do everything I possibly can for "the great stink", and my ex she knows that she can call me anytime of the day or night if they have any problem. I get him everyweekend and pretty we do petty much everything you could do with a 4 year old than u can do. now does that sound like a dead beat dad to u..


My ex thinks I am a dead beat . According to her every one including me is a dead beat except her. I cook better than she does, I sew , she doesn't , I coach the boys for their basketball team, I teach them for their homework, I wash , I cleasn , I keep a full time job Own Company, and always am put down. You are lucky your Ex stood up for you mine would have joined the band wagon. Count your blessingsflowerforyou

MikeOxbig's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:47 PM
even when I was in the army I would still send almost all of my money home to my ex when she was prego with him. the funny thing is we wernt together...... that was the first time she moved out. 2 months after she was prego.

Winx's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:48 PM


I'm sick of dead beat dads giving the good dads a bad name. Today at my sons birthday, that my ex had at her friends I got into an arguement with these girls about being a bad father. I got slapped and told that I should leave......and then my ex jumped in and told these ladies off. I found out they are pissed at this one girls ex because he is a dead beat. She over heard a conversation about a guy and assumed it was me because my ex was talking about this guy. Ya I do everything I possibly can for "the great stink", and my ex she knows that she can call me anytime of the day or night if they have any problem. I get him everyweekend and pretty we do petty much everything you could do with a 4 year old than u can do. now does that sound like a dead beat dad to u..


My ex thinks I am a dead beat . According to her every one including me is a dead beat except her. I cook better than she does, I sew , she doesn't , I coach the boys for their basketball team, I teach them for their homework, I wash , I cleasn , I keep a full time job Own Company, and always am put down. You are lucky your Ex stood up for you mine would have joined the band wagon. Count your blessingsflowerforyou



((Robert))flowerforyou

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:48 PM


I'm sick of dead beat dads giving the good dads a bad name. Today at my sons birthday, that my ex had at her friends I got into an arguement with these girls about being a bad father. I got slapped and told that I should leave......and then my ex jumped in and told these ladies off. I found out they are pissed at this one girls ex because he is a dead beat. She over heard a conversation about a guy and assumed it was me because my ex was talking about this guy. Ya I do everything I possibly can for "the great stink", and my ex she knows that she can call me anytime of the day or night if they have any problem. I get him everyweekend and pretty we do petty much everything you could do with a 4 year old than u can do. now does that sound like a dead beat dad to u..


My ex thinks I am a dead beat . According to her every one including me is a dead beat except her. I cook better than she does, I sew , she doesn't , I coach the boys for their basketball team, I teach them for their homework, I wash , I cleasn , I keep a full time job Own Company, and always am put down. You are lucky your Ex stood up for you mine would have joined the band wagon. Count your blessingsflowerforyou
Sorry to hear it (((Robert)))! Sounds like you're a great dad and a role model too. Happy Father's Day! flowerforyou :heart:

no photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:48 PM
Your doing great!drinker Just keep it up.Your son is the only one you need to worry about.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:49 PM
Happy Father's Day (((Mike))) flowerforyou :heart: :heart:

MikeOxbig's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:51 PM


I'm sick of dead beat dads giving the good dads a bad name. Today at my sons birthday, that my ex had at her friends I got into an arguement with these girls about being a bad father. I got slapped and told that I should leave......and then my ex jumped in and told these ladies off. I found out they are pissed at this one girls ex because he is a dead beat. She over heard a conversation about a guy and assumed it was me because my ex was talking about this guy. Ya I do everything I possibly can for "the great stink", and my ex she knows that she can call me anytime of the day or night if they have any problem. I get him everyweekend and pretty we do petty much everything you could do with a 4 year old than u can do. now does that sound like a dead beat dad to u..


My ex thinks I am a dead beat . According to her every one including me is a dead beat except her. I cook better than she does, I sew , she doesn't , I coach the boys for their basketball team, I teach them for their homework, I wash , I cleasn , I keep a full time job Own Company, and always am put down. You are lucky your Ex stood up for you mine would have joined the band wagon. Count your blessingsflowerforyou


yeah that was weird that she stood up for me normally she is yelling ay me for something that I have nothing to do with.

robert1652's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:54 PM



I'm sick of dead beat dads giving the good dads a bad name. Today at my sons birthday, that my ex had at her friends I got into an arguement with these girls about being a bad father. I got slapped and told that I should leave......and then my ex jumped in and told these ladies off. I found out they are pissed at this one girls ex because he is a dead beat. She over heard a conversation about a guy and assumed it was me because my ex was talking about this guy. Ya I do everything I possibly can for "the great stink", and my ex she knows that she can call me anytime of the day or night if they have any problem. I get him everyweekend and pretty we do petty much everything you could do with a 4 year old than u can do. now does that sound like a dead beat dad to u..


My ex thinks I am a dead beat . According to her every one including me is a dead beat except her. I cook better than she does, I sew , she doesn't , I coach the boys for their basketball team, I teach them for their homework, I wash , I cleasn , I keep a full time job Own Company, and always am put down. You are lucky your Ex stood up for you mine would have joined the band wagon. Count your blessingsflowerforyou
Sorry to hear it (((Robert)))! Sounds like you're a great dad and a role model too. Happy Father's Day! flowerforyou :heart:


Thanks it has been such a miserable two years just fighting to get the custodial rights . she has been charged fines so many times defying court orders and because she has money she just pays the fines and then ground hog day. but yes fathers day gives me a chance to reflect. Boys twin 7 year olds think differently though and they know . Believe me they know without me saying . Unfortunately I feel sorry for them that they feel awkward because of the split loyalties. And I unbderstand that and respect it. Happy Fathers Dayflowerforyou

MikeOxbig's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:55 PM

Happy Father's Day (((Mike))) flowerforyou :heart: :heart:


Thanks

MikeOxbig's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:57 PM
hey robert happy fathers days man.......broastdrinker

boneyjoe's photo
Sun 06/15/08 05:17 AM
he mike,,,,,,good luck,,,,,,man u gonna need it

yaya28's photo
Sun 06/15/08 05:19 AM
I can't believe you got slapped! That's just wrong, thank goodness for your ex. Looks like she appreciates you. People are always going to attack lifestyles. As long as your son knows you love him, and that you'd give him the world, that's all that matters. There is something wrong with those bitter gals if they can't see a good dad in front of them. Sorry that happened to ya frown

baroosie's photo
Sun 06/15/08 05:26 AM
... and a Happy Father's Day to all divorced fathers, who have to scrape to make ends meet, while not getting to see their children as often as they like....

yaya28's photo
Sun 06/15/08 05:28 AM

... and a Happy Father's Day to all divorced fathers, who have to scrape to make ends meet, while not getting to see their children as often as they like....


Amen to that! I have a friend that is going thru that frown It's terrible! There are some dead beat moms out there, let me tell ya!

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