ty goof...
ive been there.. lol..

What I see here is a pattern If your over him your over him, and to tell you the truth I dont think anybody ever stops caring about there ex es
I still care for my ex but No way would I let her worm Her way back in my Life, cause Ive done it and lets just say I was doing what you are doing now questioning ,, you shouldnt need to question
Whats over is over

I think that it`s awesome that you both can talk about what happened,..sounds like it was pretty major,..

My boyfriend,..myself and my Dad ended up in court also,..I was seeing him again in secret,..well was until his father told my father to tell me I had been coming to their house,..so cat out of the bag so to speak,..

Ya **** happens,..then we move on,..maybe there is some unfinshed business left between you two,.
as for telling your parents ?? I think you kindof answered that question yourself already

ps never drown out your feelings with addictions,..specially the painful ones,..they are the truth to follow,.

took the words from my mouth.

LOve will always be there , you can learn to share love with someoneelse though too or whom knows, something might still be there love is strange

Love and compatability arn't the same thing. partly because no one can define love.

See it as your closure. You will start to think of the good times and it will consume more of you than whatever the problems were. Most of the time, those problems never go away but are put on a backburner by our hearts. Say "good to hear from you, glad that you are ok.. Thank you for the good thing we HAD, but I must move on and so should you" Then close that chapter and allow a new one to start where you and your parents will be ok.