but what about all the rotten apples, i am so tired of finding them

But I should not hide from it, i guess that is what I have been doing, just not putting myself in any situation to meet ne1

i will never get back with my ex hell i dont even remember where i burried her lol.hahahahahahaha

you have the right to remain silent....oh! I guess you were joking me too I'm not a cop ..

lol, guess i feel myself loosing faith and giving up. There is nothin worse that for someone to treat you poorly. I guess my pride gets the best of me:)

yeah joking lets go w/that lol

yall r 2 funny

did we roll over when the germans bombed pearl harbor....no,nothing is over until we say its over...just sayin dont give up...and yes thats from animal house.

It does exist...just stop looking for it, (love)...allow it to find you. That's what I kept hearing. I had been burned a couple times by loosers/players on JSH...so I had given up in the search after the last one, but continued on the site because of all the decent and good friends I had made here. 'IT' found me back in March, but at the time I didn't realize it...or didn't want to accept it after all the hurt from the past. He/Tony proved himself to me in more ways than one over the last few months that he is my one and only. And if you missed it, a couple weeks ago he asked me to marry him and I said yes!

After realizing Tony was THE one...I had contact from guys I had dated in the past...some as long as a year ago, (I had thought they had fallen off the face of the earth). Now all the sudden they wanted to start off where we had left off...WRONG!!! They had their chance, they blew it...there was a time I did think a second chance was in order...but after the hurt they caused me, a second chance wasn't coming their way. The man who I plan on spending forever and always with has found his way into my heart...and there he shall stay...MY SEARCH IS OVER!

Have patience ktrnmaun and don't settle for 2nd best. You are a beautiful woman and the man worthy of you will find his way to you in time.

You give of your self, time and time again, people to your goodness as weekeness, in the end they hurt you, and treat you like you are nothin. You know you are worth and deserve more than that. It always happenes the same, weeks or months later they come back with some lame excuses and how they realized how great you are, by that time all you can feel is "soory you didnt see it b4" Is it worth it to continue putting your self out there, getting hurt, just cause you have faith that you are a good person and u will meet that 1 whos sees it in you? Or do you just say the hell with it?