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ppl are attracted to different things
does not make them right or wrong does not make you unattractive |
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There is a big difference between someone who is big, and beautiful, or just plain obese. People that are morbidly obese- are in danger of dying from their weight and having major health problems. I have seen some big women that were absoulutely beautiful inside and out(and men), I think what a person is comfortable with being is what is inportant. As long as it does not indanger hteir lives.Not all of us can be skinny-barbie type women. JMO(just my opinion).  I totally agree
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thanks mom your the best
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well hopw heavey are you
 
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Holding my BBW girlfriend was like hugging a big warm soft pillow, very nice
 Kinda miss it actually... |
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Holding my BBW girlfriend was like hugging a big warm soft pillow, very nice Kinda miss it actually...  I have yet to experience it. |
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As a bbw my personal opinion is that I had more love inside myself than my skinny self could hold so my body expanded to make room for it all...
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It’s sad how society has put a curse on what a women should or should not look like Beauty lays deep within,,, and radiates out,,, big or small should really never Be an issue,, unless its unhealthy ,,, Confidence is the key word here,,, Once that is achieved,, the beauty flowsssssssssss ((( Jesastar & Voluptuous )))) you are both very beautiful women, Hugs to you both Mom Thank you ma'am
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thanks mom your the best  you really are Beautiful,,,,, Chin up,, Smile,,,Come on Smileeeeeeeeeeee,, Yaaaaaaaaaa Hugs to you
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It’s sad how society has put a curse on what a women should or should not look like Beauty lays deep within,,, and radiates out,,, big or small should really never Be an issue,, unless its unhealthy ,,, Confidence is the key word here,,, Once that is achieved,, the beauty flowsssssssssss ((( Jesastar & Voluptuous )))) you are both very beautiful women, Hugs to you both Mom Thank you ma'am Smile Ladies,,,, I so see the Beautyyyyyyyyyyy
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I'm a BBW, and I haven't always been but I accept who I am, I put it in my profile and if someone isn't interested because of that then that's okay with me. Everyone is different in what they are interested in...me included. But I haven't had any problems turning heads as a big girl, I do agree that confidence is key though.
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Holding my BBW girlfriend was like hugging a big warm soft pillow, very nice Kinda miss it actually... I have yet to experience it. I kinda have to think I felt like a piece of string to her though 5'11" and 130lb, challenges the definition of "cuddling" a bit 
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it's all about how you carry yourself and whether or not you're comfortable in your skin. I used to be a lot heavier but have since lost the weight but not quite gained the confidence yet so even as a smaller me it's difficult. I'm working on it though. But basically as was said before, it comes down to confidence! And you're both lovely
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I don't really care what society thinks...I'm uncomfortable enough about my appearance that I don't feel it.
I don't feel sexy. I lack that confidence. Seriously...when people are in better shape, everything looks and feels better. I'm not saying I want to be a twig. I actually want to stay in the double digits. I am now a size 14/16. I think a solid size 14 would make me happy. I agree with the comment for obese women...but guess what...I fit into that category. At the gym, I am statistically considered "obese". I have about 40 pounds to loose. I know why I am as big as I am...The loss of my husband has caused a lot of heart ache. I just stopped living and the world kept turning. Last time I dated, I was 19. Now, I face the challenge of meeting someone that would love me and appreciate me inside and out. The thought of starting over KILLS me  I literally carry my pain on my body. |
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 All Neat/Clean/Well-behaved, etc. Women can be attractive.... "Large" or "Small" size...SOmetimes it just takes the right man to bring those things out in them......
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Do you need a Hug?
I think you could use a Hug (((((((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))))))))))
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By the way,
I'm not looking for pity  ...just trying to have conversation. I enjoy discussions because maybe someone will mention something I haven't thought of or taken into consideration.
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For me being uncomfortable with my appearance has nothing to do with it. Yes. I would enjoy seeing a smaller me, but I would really like not having the aches and pains that go along with the over-sized me.
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Edited by
TheMissile
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Mon 07/07/08 11:12 AM
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I don't really care what society thinks...I'm uncomfortable enough about my appearance that I don't feel it. I don't feel sexy. I lack that confidence. Seriously...when people are in better shape, everything looks and feels better. I'm not saying I want to be a twig. I actually want to stay in the double digits. I am now a size 14/16. I think a solid size 14 would make me happy. I agree with the comment for obese women...but guess what...I fit into that category. At the gym, I am statistically considered "obese". I have about 40 pounds to loose. I know why I am as big as I am...The loss of my husband has caused a lot of heart ache. I just stopped living and the world kept turning. Last time I dated, I was 19. Now, I face the challenge of meeting someone that would love me and appreciate me inside and out. The thought of starting over KILLS me I literally carry my pain on my body. Well by no means should you consider being large an "excuse", that just because you're big you should have to force yourself to be comfortable with your appearance. Shoot for whatever *you* think would make you look beautiful, and when you get there, anyone who tells you otherwise can go to hell. Case in point: f**k the gym, that's probably causing half your emotional distress right there. Exercise at home, go for walks or ride a bike. Gyms suck, sit on some gizmo staring at a wall for hours on end surrounded by people that probably don't even need to be there. Take it from me, I know what you've been through. Us sticks got it just as bad growing up |
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depends on what they look like. and the personality has to be added in.
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