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Topic: Do you ever stop loving?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 08:05 PM
When you truly love someone... do you ever stop loving them? How do you ever move on?

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Thu 07/10/08 08:07 PM
When you truly love someone... do you ever stop loving them? How do you ever move on? Like everything else the first time is the hardest afterwards easy come easy go

noah20032 Joined Fri 04/11/08 Posts: 7	Thu 07/10/08 08:08 PM
time heals all wounds

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 07/10/08 08:09 PM
When you truly love someone... do you ever stop loving them? How do you ever move on? No.. not if I am married to her, I would never stop loving her.. no matter how many misunderstanding there might be etc. Love = the strongest feeling and can over come all odds.. that is if indeed both truly do love one another that deeply etc.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Thu 07/10/08 08:09 PM
I believe when you truly love someone that flame never dies out... it make lessen to a flicker but never ceases completely. Time helps you move on and being true and loving to yourself. No matter how many friends you have or how many bottles of jameson you throw back into your throat.. believe.. time is the key!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 08:10 PM
interesting

heartofgold321 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 957	Thu 07/10/08 08:11 PM
You don't have to stop loving them, just realize that as time moves on things become easier and that feeling of lost Love is not all consuming as it once was or felt.

Neurofriction Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1840	Thu 07/10/08 08:11 PM
Love never ends or never was. Life goes on.

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Thu 07/10/08 08:12 PM
When you truly love someone... do you ever stop loving them? How do you ever move on? Time heals all,my friend.I knew someone for 11 yrs,and it abruptly ended 3 months ago,and it still hurts me alot,but in time,I must,as we all must,move on! Is hard buddy,but it can happen.Takes alot of inner strength,which also comes with time!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 07/10/08 08:13 PM
Yup, dig a big ditch & bury the B!tch

nubian Joined Fri 07/06/07 Posts: 238	Thu 07/10/08 08:16 PM
When you truly love someone... do you ever stop loving them? How do you ever move on? i believe once you have loved someone u never really stop loving them............ your love merely changes for them ,and yes you can move on but true healing must take place.

8ADW01F Joined Thu 07/10/08 Posts: 63	Thu 07/10/08 08:17 PM
Ya you just have to realise that love is just when the hormones oxytocin and vasopressin are released into the body. Because we as humans have the needed receptors in our brains for these hormones it causes the regions responsible for reward and reinforcement to be stimulated, this forms a bond with our mates. And when you think of it like that your just responding to lack of stimulation. In other words your a junky coming off your prefered drug.

nubian Joined Fri 07/06/07 Posts: 238	Thu 07/10/08 08:20 PM
When you truly love someone... do you ever stop loving them? How do you ever move on? Time heals all,my friend.I knew someone for 11 yrs,and it abruptly ended 3 months ago,and it still hurts me alot,but in time,I must,as we all must,move on! Is hard buddy,but it can happen.Takes alot of inner strength,which also comes with time!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/10/08 08:27 PM
Ya you just have to realise that love is just when the hormones oxytocin and vasopressin are released into the body. Because we as humans have the needed receptors in our brains for these hormones it causes the regions responsible for reward and reinforcement to be stimulated, this forms a bond with our mates. And when you think of it like that your just responding to lack of stimulation. In other words your a junky coming off your prefered drug. Thanks for the prognosis doctor

egoodrich Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 7140	Thu 07/10/08 08:28 PM
time heals all wounds exactly! it's cliche, but very true. but even when you are over the person, they will always have a place in your heart, deep down

8ADW01F Joined Thu 07/10/08 Posts: 63	Thu 07/10/08 08:29 PM
Thanks for the prognosis doctor You probably have no idea why but this comment just made my day

justgettingby Joined Mon 05/19/08 Posts: 12	Fri 07/11/08 10:05 AM
If it's truely love then no you will always have a place in your heart even after years you may forget. But as soon as you seen the person it comes back. Moving on varies from person to person. It does take time but also chose as well. If you choose to start over in love then you have to push yourself away from the memories and reminders time will heal ya but if you keep dwindling on the reminders and memories then you will take alot longer to heal.

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Fri 07/11/08 10:08 AM
Like everyone else , I dont think you ever stop loving someone.. There may come a time when you cant be with the person anymore and you realize its time to move on. But the love , true love never dies... Its always there , somewhere ...

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 07/11/08 10:15 AM
I will always have love for my two former boyfriends...but they were just not the kind of love to make a lasting marriage IMO, so there is nothing to get over. I guess I got lucky.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Fri 07/11/08 11:52 AM
When you truly love someone... do you ever stop loving them? How do you ever move on? love can stop in a heart beat if I feel I'm am not being treated with love and respect moving on is not difficult You just have to know when it's time to let go and go on with your life