how can girls just get fed up and let it all fall down. i gave my ex everything i had emotionally physically mentally, money was never an issue what so ever. she got almost everything she wanted without even asking for it cuz i could just feel that she wanted something. idk how can girls can do that to a guy when they kno that he is a great guy to them but doesnt care what happens to them after they break up. idk how to explain myself. it just makes me upset at most girls for that for being so selfish....

ive been there as well and its a mystery to me...girls dont appreciate what us guys do for them at the same time a good bit of guys are abusive and jerks to them.

makes me mad

what about the guys being selfish

The reason is those are all materialistic. True love cant be bought and if she is not happy in a realtionship, feelings cant be just turned on or off.

guys are very selfish and ***holes too but girls just dont know what they want

i think its harder to find a guy thats not selfish in contrast to a girl. a lot of girls are selfish. i agree there are a lot of guys that are real jerks but damn girls...... lol lol

money can't buy love so u know

did u ask her what she wanted??

u said she got everythin she wanted without even asking for it!

how did u know what she wanted????

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i kno she was not matterialistic thats for sure. im just the kind of guy that i buy anything that reminds me of the girl im with......

i would be happy just to live in a log cabin, money is not the meaning of love,

thats one big way to get taken advantage of.. and im sure it has happened

i guess im not trying to say i tried to buy her hapiness..... all im saying that i gave her everything..including that

So basically what youre saying is that its YOU that showered her with gifts......and she didnt appreciate it????? Im sensing a martyr here......

NO!! it sounds more like you were trying to buy her happiness and more, and of course it didnt work

Not saying she was but everything you mentioned was just material. When it comes to relationships it could just be that at one time you were what she wanted. After getting to know you it could be that her feelings have changed. Not that you are a bad person. Just that you were not right for her.

this is such basic psychology 101.......

Not all women are like that but I guess the ones you and I picked are..........

no im not that type of guy. i just hate it when people say well wy dont you buy her some flowers or something blah blah you kno. people just see that i said money wasnt an issue or whatever and thats all everyone focuses on

I went to a garden party to reminisce with my old friends
A chance to share old memories and play our songs again
When I got to the garden party, they all knew my name
No one recognized me, I didn't look the same

[chorus]
But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well.
You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself

People came from miles around, everyone was there
Yoko brought her walrus, there was magic in the air
'n' over in the corner, much to my surprise
Mr. Hughes hid in Dylan's shoes wearing his disguise

[chorus]

lott-in-dah-dah-dah, lot-in-dah-dah-dah

Played them all the old songs, thought that's why they came
No one heard the music, we didn't look the same
I said hello to "Mary Lou", she belongs to me
When I sang a song about a honky-tonk, it was time to leave

[chorus]

lot-dah-dah-dah (lot-dah-dah-dah)
lot-in-dah-dah-dah

Someone opened up a closet door and out stepped Johnny B. Goode
Playing guitar like a-ringin' a bell and lookin' like he should
If you gotta play at garden parties, I wish you a lotta luck
But if memories were all I sang, I rather drive a truck

[chorus]

lot-dah-dah-dah (lot-dah-dah-dah)
lot-in-dah-dah-dah

'n' it's all right now, learned my lesson well
You see, ya can't please everyone, so you got to please yourself