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Topic: Need a man's point of view please
misszmsz's photo
Mon 07/14/08 12:08 PM
He seems flaky, perhaps it's time to ask him why instead of being polite and just signing on for another scheduled date. Words work wonders with men, they can't read your mind. Next time he calls, just say "Are you sure you have the time for me because I don't really like being rescheduled?"

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Mon 07/14/08 12:12 PM
Ask a million different people...get a million answers..talk to the man and just ask him ..how you address the situation will effect its out come ...

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Mon 07/14/08 12:25 PM

He seems flaky, perhaps it's time to ask him why instead of being polite and just signing on for another scheduled date. Words work wonders with men, they can't read your mind. Next time he calls, just say "Are you sure you have the time for me because I don't really like being rescheduled?"


Welcome to the Boards....And Good answer too...

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Mon 07/14/08 12:35 PM
Honestly I think he probably doesn't realize how much he does it and does have either a lot on his plate, or not real good at committments.

BUT .. my BF did this to me for a while and at last I straight up confronted him. He got a bit better, but really shaped up when I "happened" to have to cancel a few times myself :wink:

Nothin like a small taste of his medicine yanno? bigsmile

merlin2525's photo
Mon 07/14/08 12:51 PM

Ok I have a question and this is not to dog on the men this is what is happening to me. Maybe you men can help me try to figure out what is going on??
I am dating this guy who seems to be very nice BUT we make plans and few hours later he might call me and say something came up. Now he does reschedule every time but this has happened 3 times in the last week. So tell me what you are thinking about this!!
He does work a full time job and then he also has a part time job. Plus he spends time with his son...I know he is busy BUT isn't it kind of strange to make plans at 4 and then call at 7 and say something has came up?

Ok here's a mans view. You're not #1. maybe not #2
You two aren't exclusive. He's got you on the sidelines in case #1 and/or #2 make a noshow. He makes plans when it's convenient and when he thinks he can't get another.
All of a sudden in pops #1 then he cancels#3
All I'm sayin' is #1 and /or #2 could be keeping him satisfied.
#3 doesn't. Except maybe every so often if at all.
He's going with a sure thing rather than a maybe.
It's a no brainer.
Good luck

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Mon 07/14/08 02:54 PM

Ok I have a question and this is not to dog on the men this is what is happening to me. Maybe you men can help me try to figure out what is going on??
I am dating this guy who seems to be very nice BUT we make plans and few hours later he might call me and say something came up. Now he does reschedule every time but this has happened 3 times in the last week. So tell me what you are thinking about this!!
He does work a full time job and then he also has a part time job. Plus he spends time with his son...I know he is busy BUT isn't it kind of strange to make plans at 4 and then call at 7 and say something has came up?

All men are saints just trust them all .
I am a man too .

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Mon 07/14/08 02:55 PM
oh, I thought you wanted some real advice LOL bigsmile

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