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Topic: Why are some Women labeled Gold diggers...What about some Me
FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 07/15/08 05:08 PM
I'm a gold digger.

mack Joined Tue 08/15/06 Posts: 1	Tue 07/15/08 05:23 PM
not me,i gave my ex whatever she wanted.i was just happy she was leaving.lol

MontanaBound Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 40	Tue 07/15/08 06:32 PM
See yall are talking about gold digging men,,true there out there,,but have yall ever think of the men out here that hate the men that do that ****,,see in my mind that makes me look bad,,im the kind of a guy that will give to my woman,,and do for her,,and love the way she needs to be,,and for the money part,,she needs only to pay for what we need around the house,,and things shge wants for her self,,and at times she could buy me something,,lol,,but in all,,it the mans true mind to take care of his house hold,,and his woman,,I hate the fact there is DEAD BEAT DADS out there or for the most part,,the DEAD BEAT AZZ HOLES that cant seem to TREAT A WOMAN WITH RESPECT,LOVE,TRUST,...Good Guys Finish Last...Sweet Woman Never Finish Looking For Mr.Right I'll NEVER give up... I have raised my 21 y/o without a penny. I know that there is a Great Guy out there for me!!! I also have a 12y/o that he kinda started to help 5 years ago. I do not hold this against men just them....

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 07/16/08 11:04 AM
Hey back at you, Chuckaliscious!

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Wed 07/16/08 11:10 AM
it ant just men,,that try tp pull that crap,even on here there are women thats in there 20's wanting to start a relationship with an old fat like me,,,,,big red flag,,,,,,got to be a scam,,,,,,,,,so i feel like there some men on here doing th same thing jeez joe, no one ever starts crap like that with me..do ya s'pose i'm trying too hard??

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 07/16/08 11:11 AM Edited by debbie1980 on Wed 07/16/08 11:11 AM
Does anyone else care that there are also MEN Gold Diggers???? yes it pisses me off. somemen are so stingy they wont buy you a drink on the first date it pisses me off because im very generous with my money.

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Wed 07/16/08 11:21 AM
Well... I was in a relationship and he got scared and ran.... Later he said he ran because he felt that he could have dropped everything and just married me that day.... But he didn't want to lose everything again. Well I thought "What do you have"... You live with your Mom and Dad and drive their Truck. Mind you that when I met him he told me that he had a Truck, Horse Trailer and a Horse ect... Well the Bank took the Truck, He sold the Horse Trailer and gave the Horse away. Never did I see any of this. However, He has been to my Farm and also to my Rental Property,seen my Horses ect... Well he asked me to Marry him and I just couldn't. Now I'm the Bad Person. Why do some Men want to take from women? Single Mothers at that. Knowing that they have worked their butts off to earn what they have??? I am NOT a Man hater... I know that there are Great Men out there... I just haven't found mine Yet. Can you help me understand... WHY? there are those take only take and don't give on both sides..for myself, i live paycheck to paycheck and can barely support myself, let alone anyone else...i don't seriously entertain actually finding someone for that reason..but thats just me, in that, i wouldn't expect anyone who busted their hiney for what they've earned to "feel" i would try and take advantage of them, because of my finances being what they are.