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| Topic: So I have this dilemma...... | |
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Well the one that I've spoken to every night for 2 weeks, it seems as though it may be heading in a direction more then just friends.
Do you mean that I should get to know both before deciding what to do? |
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sunshine, become friends, become comfortable with yourself, stop putting so much stress on becoming involved, the right one will find you and/or you find her when you least expect it.
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Yeah that's been the thing for me, I have a hard time taking a step back as it were with some people.
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Ok, so I've been talking to someone here for about 2 weeks now or so, maybe a little more even. We get along great, and I feel there's a bit of a connection between us, despite a few things we may not neccessarily see eye to eye on as it were. She lives somewhat close, and was looking into meeting her before the summer was over and seeing what happened. Only thing is I'm not totally sure I'm ready to commit myself to this right now. See had saw this girl at the track recently, and thought she was kind of cute. I've talked to her a little bit since then, but not much just brief conversation a couple of days ago when she'd pass me on the track. I kind of was looking at asking her out for coffee or something one of these days, just to see what would come of it. So I'm kind of torn as to what to do here. Any thoughts? |
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Yeah that's been the thing for me, I have a hard time taking a step back as it were with some people. well sunshine, continue to work on it, relax a little, stop putting undue stress on yourself, and go with the flow. Now by no means am I suggesting you become a push over, but dont stress over things you have no control over.. follow? |
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Yeah, though I wouldn't say I neccessarily have no control over things like this. But either way I need to relax more and see people as people, more so then potential love interests, at least at first anyway.
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this will allow the relationship be it friendship or romantic to evolve naturally.
good luck to you |
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your not married!!! Ask the girl out for coffee Even if he is married he can ask the lady for a coffee , we are civilized people .  .
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yeah he and the mrs can invite the ladies out.
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