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Topic: Hypothetically speaking...
Nursekimmie09's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:52 PM
Yeah...I try to put it out there in the beginning to be honest and let them know what's up...
But I suppose sometimes it isn't the best thing for reasons such as these

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:53 PM



Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


I think we have talked before...
If he knows your values, and then decided to violate them, then in fact he is a jerk and should be curbed very quickly... (p.s. are you on myspace in any groups? I swear we have talked before... and I just started posting here)


Yeah I have a myspace...
But as far as groups go I just belong to some nursing ones...and school ones I think


I dont think my school has nursing (c.t.u. online) and if it does, we certainly would not have done this in there...lol... could be de ja vu.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:54 PM

Yeah...I try to put it out there in the beginning to be honest and let them know what's up...
But I suppose sometimes it isn't the best thing for reasons such as these


You were honest to the wrong person , that's all

It happens flowerforyou

iamherefornow's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:55 PM




"... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to..."

But then what is your opinion of the female after the date?



I married a woman who slept with me 1 1/2 hours into our first date... again it is a value system, and every one has a different set of them...


Again you win. I guess I am just a little old fashion in my thinking.



I apologize if you thought I was fighting... I was not trying to 'win'... merely to contribute in my way to the dialectic. You have your values, and I adamently defend your right to have them. If you do not feel they are old fashioned, and they suit you, do not change them for anyone!! Values are important and one should only adjust who they are for themselves, including our poster here! Again if I seemed like I was competing I apologize...


No need to apologize. You did not come across as competing, you just got me to thinking and rethinking. Definetly not a bad thing. Thank you.

Nursekimmie09's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:56 PM




Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


I think we have talked before...
If he knows your values, and then decided to violate them, then in fact he is a jerk and should be curbed very quickly... (p.s. are you on myspace in any groups? I swear we have talked before... and I just started posting here)


Yeah I have a myspace...
But as far as groups go I just belong to some nursing ones...and school ones I think


I dont think my school has nursing (c.t.u. online) and if it does, we certainly would not have done this in there...lol... could be de ja vu.


Yeah...I get that feeling a lot
Maybe another virgin looking for the right guy?
Nice to know im not the only one left bigsmile

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:57 PM

Yeah...I try to put it out there in the beginning to be honest and let them know what's up...
But I suppose sometimes it isn't the best thing for reasons such as these


That does not seem like a 'bad' thing to do by itself, just remember, there are wolves out there amongst the sheep... be safe in what you do. You should not have to hide who you are, or be ashamed of it. However, I would not say, "hey, whats up, I am a virgin..." lol.
I know you do not do that, however to some men this is a temptation and a 'conquest' so again, be safe...

iamherefornow's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:57 PM

Yeah...I get that feeling a lot
Maybe another virgin looking for the right guy?
Nice to know im not the only one left bigsmile


You should be proud of being a virgin.:smile:

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 11:00 PM





Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


I think we have talked before...
If he knows your values, and then decided to violate them, then in fact he is a jerk and should be curbed very quickly... (p.s. are you on myspace in any groups? I swear we have talked before... and I just started posting here)


Yeah I have a myspace...
But as far as groups go I just belong to some nursing ones...and school ones I think


I dont think my school has nursing (c.t.u. online) and if it does, we certainly would not have done this in there...lol... could be de ja vu.


Yeah...I get that feeling a lot
Maybe another virgin looking for the right guy?
Nice to know im not the only one left bigsmile


nah, I know your face... maybe it is a weird case of de ja vu. (sorry if it is spooky, but... I never forget a face, however I have had de ja vu before...)
believe me sweetie, you are not the only person sticking to your convictions. Some do find that important. If you value it, do not trade it, or allow anyone to make you feel like less of a person because of it!

Nursekimmie09's photo
Sat 07/26/08 11:00 PM
I am proud of it bigsmile
So I don't mind sharing
Lol yeah...I know there are some people out there that may be looking to take advantage...
Im always safe about it
Always meet in public

fjr's photo
Sat 07/26/08 11:10 PM


No he is moving on to the next chick!


Good he should...
I've already moved on to the next dude
Uhhh...hypothetically speaking lol

laugh laugh laugh

Sluggo's photo
Sun 07/27/08 03:27 AM
I'd assume that he felt she didn't like him that way. So he felt it to be a waste of time to keep pursuing.

s1owhand's photo
Sun 07/27/08 03:37 AM
ok here's a twist...

maybe he did not want a booty call. maybe he was just
infatuated as a result of the many emails and got carried away...
then the rest of the evening seemed to go well so he tried a
kiss again at the end. he was again refused. so - now he feels
she really doesn't care for him and doesn't understand why if
she says she likes him and they seem to get along why she is
not interested in a kiss.

so - it seems to me like it could be one of those awkward
out of synch kind of things. but usually when it is out of
synch like that it stays that way and does not work out...

now - he is no longer feeling it...so it's not happenin.

the good news is - everybody is still available - and
there are no rulz.

bigsmile

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