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Topic: What is the #1 most important thing you look for?
no photo
Sat 07/22/06 07:11 PM
is it more so looks or personality? I myself like a good balance whats a
great looking person without a personality? what about you?

andreww38's photo
Sat 07/22/06 11:25 PM
hi,
for anyone to say that looks don't matter at all would be lying.

generally, i feel most folks need to find someone who's at least average
looking and maybe have a fantastic personality.

although, i need to be attacted to someone's personality before
considering bringing things to a new level.

but it does help if they're good looking though!

patb's photo
Wed 07/26/06 02:42 PM
It seems to me that looks are mostly a doorway to me. Looks tend to get
things started, but after that personality becomes important. For
example, there have been times that people I was not initially attracted
to became attractive the more I got to know them..

no photo
Wed 07/26/06 11:03 PM
I think that personality is more important than looks. I am not openly
looking for someone I find unattractive, but there have been many cases
where someone who would be generally considered cute became repulsive
because of their personality. I have also had cases where people who
wouldn't ordinarily be cute became a very big interest because of their
personality.

no photo
Wed 07/26/06 11:09 PM
I always mention to an attractive looking female that if she has a
personality to match her looks I could dig that. Unfortunately (maybe) I
am picky sometimes maybe too picky for my own good hahaha

Moose's photo
Wed 07/26/06 11:12 PM
I Agree what would you rather have a good looking girl that's a BI*** or
and not so looking girl that you can carry a conversation on with or
even more

trixxy_kid's photo
Wed 07/26/06 11:52 PM
to be honest it is all about the smile and the eyes and the personality
if thats all fake you might as well not even talk to me

fosterfarms84's photo
Tue 08/01/06 02:29 PM

Love. A lady who knows how to really love.....
there is nothing more wonderful on the earth...haha is that corny??
well i don't give a shit:)

Andrew

Christian's photo
Tue 08/01/06 02:46 PM
Anyone that says looks r not important is lying. Im not saying they
have to be drop dead gorgeous but at least attractive to you.
Personality is also very importants to me. I like to have fun and joke
around and I like someone that can laugh and have fun with me. So
neither one is as important as the other to me but i would like them to
have both qualities going for them.

no photo
Wed 08/02/06 01:23 PM
I look for someone i can relate to. I enjoy good conversation and humor
so i like a guy who is intelligent and knowledgeable on numerous topics.
Overall though if we have nothing in common he could be as hot as hell
but i'm still not going to do more then drool at him. ;p

no photo
Thu 08/03/06 07:05 PM
I completely agree.

no photo
Fri 08/04/06 09:08 AM
I agree andrew but at the same time it is there personality if you date
a person for there looks than you just will be getting no where because
that their personality stand out before anything. if you have a messed
up personality and look good why would I want you? because you look
good. no that not me.

andreww38's photo
Fri 08/04/06 11:21 PM
but sometimes you meet someone who's average looking but has such a
larger than life and attractive personality, that you dont really pay
attention to their looks at all.

dwa512's photo
Sun 08/06/06 10:45 PM
i look for at there eyes and hair...not to mention there tits and if
that flies then we talk and see if we have anything in common

candyfloss's photo
Thu 08/10/06 12:50 PM
Looks and personality should always be balanced. What wud you do if a
guy tells you he luvs you like anything, is sincere, caring and all taht
stuff. But whenever you see him you feel like screaming at the top of
your voice with horror and disgust.Doesn't make ne sense. does it? So
atleast looks should be bearable enough if not drop dead gorgeous

karen_reschke's photo
Thu 08/10/06 06:03 PM
There should be a balance between looks and personality. Know where
their heart is and if you have anything in common.

no photo
Sat 08/12/06 01:19 PM
I agree with most of you guys on the level of communication and visual
stuff...

Looks are only skin deep ,,, and you know the lights are on and no bodys
home thing!! ...If worse comes to worse I could carry a good
conversation with myself if needd be.... LOL

But I feel the most important thing is to find the persons core
personality. All this other stuff is superficial.... its the inner
spirit that counts.

noster's photo
Sun 08/13/06 03:42 PM
EYES. if she can't look me in the eyes, I'm cautious.

ROCKY_F4X2's photo
Mon 08/14/06 08:34 PM
looks are very important.there must be physical attraction,but she also
must be able to hold up a conversation as well.

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Tue 08/15/06 08:45 AM
That has been true so many, many, times.

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