I think someone hit the nail on the head earlier on this one.. some
people have a need to feel important, and if you dont take care of the
little "sensitive" stuff, then they don't feel that way.. and the need
is so strong for them, that it hurts when the person closest to them is
unable to satisfy it.

never, ever, lower your standards.. Life as a single person aint so bad,
but life with someone who you lowered standards for can really, really
suck bad..

What is graphology? yea, I know I could google it if I wanted, but I
dont, so, just tell me.. :)

I dont know either.. this guy confuses me also.

Biggest problem with this is, even if you try to get him to stop, it may
not work.. you can find out pretty quickly if hes one of those by
mentioning that you're going out on a date with somebody in casual
conversation (or have gone on a date recently with someone.. he just saw
a movie, "oh, i just saw that with my bf last week..")... that is
usually interpreted as a clear signal, especially if interest is not
returned.

I cant say this to be fact, but one thing i seem to have noticed is the
harder you look, the less likely you are to find it.. its like one of
those stereogram pictures you see in the malls, you wont find it until
you relax your eyes.. from what I understand, most good relationships
happened by chance.. neither person was looking for a relationship, it
just happened.

I hope hes not talking to me.. my name may be the ambiguous Pat, but I'm
nobodys wife :)

And, I always follow up my proposals with "have a nice day" too.. it
just seems right, you know? :) j/k

My mom keeps telling me the place to go is church groups, but, I'm just
not so sure about that for me.. her argument is that if you want to
find quality people that is the place to go, its just I'm not very
religious.. there has to be other places out there

Sure, the internet is certainly nice, but having a conversation with
someone isnt really knowing them either..

hehe, I hear that one Ruewen.. maybe this topic should be "What WAS your
true dream in life?"

andreww,
cool.. Did you find a place to take it online, or had you taken it in
the past? Its a copyrighted test, so its hard to find online (for free
at least), but I have seen it before.. first time I took it was on a BBS
system door game module years ago..

after doing some searches, wikipedia has an info page on meyers briggs,
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers-Briggs_Type_Indicator
at the bottom there are some links to some free "knock off" tests that
should be similar to the actual test.

hmmm.. I also took the kingdomality test and I came out to be "The White
Knight"? Not sure how they figured that one

I feel the sudden uncontrollable urge to break out in song guys..

ohhh, why cant we be friends, why cant we be friends....



ok..phew... its over now.

umm, what the heck is a sex user? All I know, is I hear user in that,
and I immediately think someone needs technical support :)

Wow, wouldn't let you touch her anywhere on her skin, eh? Did she ever
give a reason why, or was it just because thats how she liked it?

I'd have to say, you must have learned some "good moves" doing that if
you were getting the chick off in her clothes..

I cant believe anyone would think that scam would work over a dating
site... even for someone who is a scammer, it seems like a collosal
waste of time to be trying it on this site, especially on the poeple
that read the message boards..

hehe, yeah, there would have to be a talk after that just to make sure I
understood where everything stands, otherwise next thing you know the
bomb drops and shes left you for another girl (which, I know people who
this has happened to, actually).. id rather have some advance warning if
possible on that one :)

Ive never odne this one before, so i'll have ot check it out.. Has
anyone else out there ever done the Meyers-Briggs personality test?
Thats always been one of my favorites.. ENTP/INTP here.

one navigation related thing I think would be nice is when you change
your preferences and clicksave preferences, if it redirected you to your
search page instead of staying on that page.. just a matter of
preference though..

desire might surprise you, and find yourself wondering..

lol.. how cruel to get everyones hopes up like that ruewen.. heh, just
kidding..

Anyways, my statement is based on the assumption that It was a known
fact that the person I was dating was Bi from the onset of the
relationship..

Were that not the case, that would be a difficult question to answer..
My gut tells me that it would still feel like cheating by the simple
fact that it was being done without my knowledge.. that to me would be
what makes something cheating, irrelevant of rather it were male or
female.

However, at the same time, I know there would be part of my mind that
would immediately start exploring the possibilites of the situation.. I
mean, there would be nothing I could do about that.. the temptation to
make manifest the fantasy would be very strong.. I guess the best answer
I could give would be that their would be a lot of talking in our future
to find out where everything stands.

oh wow, im going to have to disagree with that one candy.. I don;t
really want to take on anyones complete responsibilites.. good lord, I
have enough of those myself without having someone elses dumped on my
back also.. Alo, I never though paying for dinner could be seen as a
sign of security for the future, but, then again, i am termianlally
single too :)