Memories are what YOU make of them,they can either be painful,or cherishable.Some memories one has no control over,but other memories are quite controllable,all depends on ones point of view or mood at the time of the memory.
My deepest,most cherishable memory is 2 sided.One side is a warm and fuzzy feeling,deep tenderness,deep intimacy,and most precious of all,and will always remember that part of it,but also must remember the other side of the coin,the ending of a memory,as painful as it may be,one has to be strong and be able to cope with it as well.
There are good times and bad times and we all must be able to balance each side equally,or the whole memory as a whole means literally nothing and can end up being a waste of time and effort.
This is a very hard lesson to learn,but is learnable if one is strong enough and willing to set aside good,from bad,and choose which he or she chooses to give more power to.
I hope I have made some sense out of a confusing situation!





Thanks for reading,



Rodster

good job

Thanks Buddy!

Same back at you sweetie! Thanks!