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Topic: FWB..............
Tanzkity's photo
Sun 08/17/08 04:28 PM



I've had a few at times when I was not ready for a relationship, it serves its purpose, and was mutually beneficial, but when it's over it's over and time to move on.

Would I ever be someone's without my concent as to the temperature of the relationship, well, I think any woman who does that is pure and simple STUPID.


what if you didnt know you thought that you were in a relationship and come to find out you are told all you were was a FWB........


That would equate STUPID.... There are boundries... if you don't know them, then ASK, if you don't ASK, then you get what you deserve.


Stupid is knowing that you had info and you took it upon yourself to not handle business...............what I am talking about is not know ing at all and then you come to the realization.............wow the bitterness is strong i can taste it from here..............slow down its called being human and making mistakes you are allowed to do that, you dont turn into salt or go straight to hell.............wow to that

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Sun 08/17/08 04:34 PM




I've had a few at times when I was not ready for a relationship, it serves its purpose, and was mutually beneficial, but when it's over it's over and time to move on.

Would I ever be someone's without my concent as to the temperature of the relationship, well, I think any woman who does that is pure and simple STUPID.


what if you didnt know you thought that you were in a relationship and come to find out you are told all you were was a FWB........


That would equate STUPID.... There are boundries... if you don't know them, then ASK, if you don't ASK, then you get what you deserve.


Stupid is knowing that you had info and you took it upon yourself to not handle business...............what I am talking about is not know ing at all and then you come to the realization.............wow the bitterness is strong i can taste it from here..............slow down its called being human and making mistakes you are allowed to do that, you dont turn into salt or go straight to hell.............wow to that


If you "think" you are in a relationship with someone and are sleeping with them, and then find out you are NOT in a relationship with them, it is lack of questions on your part, and that just equals STUPID... What women gives out their heart and doesn't ask a few THOUSAND questions before hand?

Is this exclusive?

Are you seeing anyone else?

Where is this going?

What are your future plans?

If you don't have the courage to ask those questions, then there are also subtle hints you can go by...do they introduce you to their friends as "girlfriend" or "friend" are they affectionate at all in public, do they see you when it's conveinient for them or for you....ect ect.

If you don't take control of your life someone else will, and if you allow that to happen, you get what you deserve.

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Sun 08/17/08 05:32 PM
Edited by Tanzkity on Sun 08/17/08 05:33 PM





I've had a few at times when I was not ready for a relationship, it serves its purpose, and was mutually beneficial, but when it's over it's over and time to move on.

Would I ever be someone's without my concent as to the temperature of the relationship, well, I think any woman who does that is pure and simple STUPID.


what if you didnt know you thought that you were in a relationship and come to find out you are told all you were was a FWB........


That would equate STUPID.... There are boundries... if you don't know them, then ASK, if you don't ASK, then you get what you deserve.


Stupid is knowing that you had info and you took it upon yourself to not handle business...............what I am talking about is not know ing at all and then you come to the realization.............wow the bitterness is strong i can taste it from here..............slow down its called being human and making mistakes you are allowed to do that, you dont turn into salt or go straight to hell.............wow to that


If you "think" you are in a relationship with someone and are sleeping with them, and then find out you are NOT in a relationship with them, it is lack of questions on your part, and that just equals STUPID... What women gives out their heart and doesn't ask a few THOUSAND questions before hand?

Is this exclusive?

Are you seeing anyone else?

Where is this going?

What are your future plans?

If you don't have the courage to ask those questions, then there are also subtle hints you can go by...do they introduce you to their friends as "girlfriend" or "friend" are they affectionate at all in public, do they see you when it's conveinient for them or for you....ect ect.

If you don't take control of your life someone else will, and if you allow that to happen, you get what you deserve.


Wow to that.............you should write a book and stop wasting your time on jsh im serious...............go for it........

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