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Topic: single too long
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Tue 10/07/08 03:38 PM



So is being or going bald so bad?




Balding can be VERY sexy... Just PLEEZE don't do the comb over cuz that is big points against!


What she said!!!

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Tue 10/07/08 03:43 PM

You've said everything I've been saying
for a long, long, long time now.
But I'm not sure what the next step is.
I'm a musician and I used to go out and hear the bands play around the area. I was more in tune with listening rather than scoping out the room.
I would be aproached by nice guys to dance and I would but I could feel there was no spark.
I stopped going out after a while.
I go to work and I come home to the dog. My music is my piece of mind. It makes me feel good to play. But that's not doing anything on the social side of things.
I work in a small office with 7 people, they're all married and I have one friend that I jam with every now and then.
He just got married in June.
The pool is running dry and time is ticking away.
I really want to share my life with someone.
Is it possible to become selfish with one's independence? Or is there someone out there that's looking for the qualities I have?
I'll take any advice offered.



I find myself like you, all my friends are married. I live in a very small town where there's few single men, even fewer close to my age. I don't do the bar scene, heck there's not even a bar in this town.

I tried the grocery store, all I got was a cart full of groceries. :wink:

Seriously, I wouldn't mind having an LDR. I think sometimes that's the only way I could even attempt at making a relationship work, at first anyway. That way I could gradually give up my space and gradually adjust to having someone who actually wanted to know where I was and what I was doing. Right now, when someone asks me that, it's almost like...hey, why do you ask! It really would be nice to have companionship, someone to share feelings and thoughts with and maybe even plan a future, but still I won't compromise on some things, just to have someone breathing my air. I've decided if it's meant to be, it will...if not, I have a good life!

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