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Topic: What would you do if you
Peccy's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:33 AM
loved someone so much it hurt, were sure she was the one, but you think that your being afraid of committal may have spooked her?

massachusetts's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:34 AM
where does it hurt?laugh

hauveralan's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:34 AM
thought you two hit it off great........what happened???

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:34 AM
Edited by JusWannaSayHi on Mon 09/01/08 12:35 AM

loved someone so much it hurt, were sure she was the one, but you think that your being afraid of committal may have spooked her?


Awwe.... peccy???? really????Awwweee now i am sad

OK... I would wright her and if she really loves you and if you really love her....

YOU BOTH SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND NOT YOUR MIND NOR YOUR PASTS......

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:35 AM

loved someone so much it hurt, were sure she was the one, but you think that your being afraid of committal may have spooked her?
bigsmile Hang up and drivehappy

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:35 AM


loved someone so much it hurt, were sure she was the one, but you think that your being afraid of committal may have spooked her?


Awwe.... peccy???? really????Awwweee now i am sad

OK... I would wright her and if she really loves you and if you really love her....

YOU BOTH SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND NOT YOUR MIND NOR YOUR PASTS......
bigsmile Thats rightdrinker

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Mon 09/01/08 12:36 AM

loved someone so much it hurt, were sure she was the one, but you think that your being afraid of committal may have spooked her?
does this even make sense???? If someone is afraid of commitment yet in love with someone?????? Hmmmmmmmm step up to the plate........man up or man out!!noway

domination's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:36 AM
Does it hurt when you pee...? smokin

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:37 AM

thought you two hit it off great........what happened???

flowerforyou That's what Im wondering too.flowerforyou

Peccy's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:37 AM
Didn't say this pertained to me

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:38 AM


loved someone so much it hurt, were sure she was the one, but you think that your being afraid of committal may have spooked her?
does this even make sense???? If someone is afraid of commitment yet in love with someone?????? Hmmmmmmmm step up to the plate........man up or man out!!noway
bigsmile Thats right.drinker Just tell her how you feelflowerforyou

livelife68's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:39 AM

loved someone so much it hurt, were sure she was the one, but you think that your being afraid of committal may have spooked her?


I think I'd have to work on that fear of commitment first.

Peccy's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:40 AM
NO WE DID HIT IT OFF GREAT! It was an awesome two weeks!

EtherealEmbers's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:41 AM
You would remind yourself that she's been hurt in the past, that she's scared, and that she just wants to take it slow. You'd take into consideration that sometimes when people feel good again it helps to refresh the pain of the one they lost... and you'd be supportive if she wanted to ease up a little because you don't want to not be there for her.

You'd remember that sometimes people feel guilty for feeling things they once thought they'd only feel with someone else. You'd remind yourself of how good of a time you had with her and know that sometimes people want to sabotage something good for fear of losing the new person and this helps them feel more secure knowing that they're the one in the driver's seat with the control over loss. Be sweet, listen, comfort her, and be there.

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:41 AM

Didn't say this pertained to me



YOU KILL ME PECCY WITH YOUR CHIT MAN!!!
I AM NOT ONLY MESSED UP smokin drinks

BUT NOW I FEEL LIKE I AM TOTALLY LOST IN YOUR LITTLE WORLD OF MESSED UP QUESTIONS!!
LMAO!!!!!!!!


HEP!!!!
HEP!!!!

I am LOST!!!!

hauveralan's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:41 AM
thats good.........i was scared there was no hope left for any of us

EtherealEmbers's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:41 AM
Oh wait. You said YOU are the one with the fear. Oh. Then tell yourself to stop being a dumb @ss!

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:43 AM
flowerforyou Email her and tell her how you feel and that you would like to slow down. Its normal to be uncomfortable if you feel like things are moving too fast.flowerforyou

Jtevans's photo
Mon 09/01/08 12:44 AM
i say bust out the tazer...



she will never get away from me!smokin

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Mon 09/01/08 12:52 AM
huh

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