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Topic: More Mutual Match Meyhem
tngxl65's photo
Sun 11/09/08 12:35 PM
I take the Nancy Reagan approach....

"Just say NO!" laugh laugh

WeWantJustice's photo
Sun 11/09/08 06:48 PM
This site is rough on newbs. Apparently 5 people said they want to met me, but no matter what I click on, I can't find out who those 5 people are. The FAQ has no explanation. Those poor 5 people, pining away for me, dreaming furtive dreams, unable to sleep soundly because I will never know who they are...

tngxl65's photo
Sun 11/09/08 09:03 PM
Edited by tngxl65 on Sun 11/09/08 09:03 PM

This site is rough on newbs. Apparently 5 people said they want to met me, but no matter what I click on, I can't find out who those 5 people are. The FAQ has no explanation. Those poor 5 people, pining away for me, dreaming furtive dreams, unable to sleep soundly because I will never know who they are...


If you go through the 'find new mutual matches' process, click yes or no on each, and if you click yes on someone that also clicks yes on you, the mingle will send you the magical email and you'll be well on your way to finding your soulmate.

Just ask PATSFAN.

WeWantJustice's photo
Sun 11/09/08 09:21 PM
Ok, so I will never find out who clicked YES for me until I click YES for them. Gotcha.

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Mon 11/10/08 09:29 AM
I have been getting a number of young, out of state women on my mutual match. Not scammers I don't think, just odd.
What does a 29 yr old woman in New York want with a 50 yr old guy in Michigan????

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/10/08 09:31 AM
Money....

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Mon 11/10/08 09:41 AM

Money....


If she wants to come here, I am willing to share what I don't have.laugh

I've emailed a couple of them, no responses.

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/10/08 09:43 AM


Money....


If she wants to come here, I am willing to share what I don't have.laugh

I've emailed a couple of them, no responses.


I'm sorry.. that was just a gut reaction. I'd think moreso than money, women want a secure man. Money can represent security to some women. That's all.

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Mon 11/10/08 09:50 AM
Edited by michiganman3 on Mon 11/10/08 09:50 AM
I understand, a little more mature, settled in a career, probably owns home, been around awhile, possibly less interested in sex.laugh laugh laugh


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Mon 11/10/08 09:55 AM
Oh hecks NO. A 29 year-old woman, if she is normal, should want sex a lot a lot a lot....

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/10/08 09:57 AM
Yep, by the time a woman gets into her 30's she is much more interested in sex than she was in her 20's. And, those of us in our 40's? Stand by. devil

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Mon 11/10/08 10:03 AM
Well thats good to know about women, as I haven't lost any interest.laugh

But I still am a little confused as to why they would Mutual Match with me.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 11/10/08 10:08 AM

Well thats good to know about women, as I haven't lost any interest.laugh

But I still am a little confused as to why they would Mutual Match with me.


I think the sex gets better for both men and women as they get older, but it's more true for women. As women get older they become more comfortable with their bodies and less fearful about expressing what they want and need and in bed.

As far as MM goes.......I have no idea why we get the matches we do. They make no sense to me whatsoever and sometimes I think they are completely random.

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Mon 11/10/08 10:11 AM
Ruth, I believe you are right.

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