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since i broke up with my ex nearly two months ago we've done a little chasing each other. hes been telling me hes sorry about the way he treated me and wants to make it up to me he loves me and misses me...but i found out hes been seeing a women at work (whom is older than him) for nearly 2 months and hes now hes told everyone about it..i went to confront him and he wouldnt admit to seeing anyone like she thinks they are all he told me was that shes a friend and he has feelings for and doesnt know if he will date her...he said he only told me those things because he never thought he was going to see me again and he had to get it out of his system it was never his intention for us to get back together......now im in two minds whether to try and stay friends with him in the long run or whether to tell her about him playing the both of us but then im just going to sound like the jealous ex which im not i just want her to know to be careful because of the **** he has and is still putting me through for the last 2 years but you know it might not mean much to her seeing as shes seperated and getting a divorce he might just be a rebound thing to play with so she might not care what i have to say and then ill proberbly just get him abusing me........i just would like the truth for once i cant really understand why he hid me for 2 years and then after 2 months he can be so open about her what exactly was he hiding me for...other women too???...so whats some advice on this??? < < well my friend, you could start with what i did to my second ex-husband. here in ohio, we have a maximum security prison called lucasville. i got on line and got inmate prison id numbers for as many inmates there as i could (easily over 400). i typed up the most graphic 5 page homoerotic letter that you could possibly imagine and made hundreds and hundreds of copies. then i mailed one to each inmate complete with pics of him, his full name, his home and work addresses, as well as his home phone, cell phone and work phone numbers. this of course, is only a start. there's alot more where this came from. scumbags MUST NOT be permitted to hurt others with impunity and bear no consequences. if you'd like any more ideas, simply e mail me i'll gladly share. my second husband will remember every day for the rest of his life that he phucked with the wrong b@tch and you should do the same for this scumbag. don't buy into or listen to the rhetoric that somehow revenge is wrong. if you know in your heart that you're a good woman, and that you were good to this man and did nothing to deserve being preyed upon and victimized in this manner, let her rip. when guys do this kind of crap, it's because they think they can get away with it. show him he's dead wrong. |
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I think you just confessed to about a half dozen felonies...RUN!!!!
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well, clothes are the best revenge...everytime you know your going to see him, just dress in a provacative fashion he is not used to seeing on you, something sexy and attractive, and don't let him touch ya, hey! it will truly drive him out of his skin...hehe!
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I think you just confessed to about a half dozen felonies...RUN!!!! < < even if what you say is so and somehow doing this was illegal, it does not compare to the ACTUAL and REPEATED 47 total felony counts that are on his record for the things that he coldly and heartlessly did to me. you obviously feel sorry for womanizing dirtbags and think that gross abuse should be gotten away with. i'm greatful that the 9 men and 3 women of the jury at his trial disagree with you. |
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revenge only opens the door wider for karma to come back and kick you tenfold
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revenge is a dish best served with tequila
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Ohh man..a philanderer..well honey..no woman has to put up w/that mess.
Kick him to the curb, get him out of your mind... you are better off alone...how degrading. Yea friends??? Nah..cut throat end this Ordeal..too much drama for any woman to handle. I know it is tough, but there are soo many good guys out there give them a chance and u may really like yourself for it. |
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Ohh man..a philanderer..well honey..no woman has to put up w/that mess. Kick him to the curb, get him out of your mind... you are better off alone...how degrading. Yea friends??? Nah..cut throat end this Ordeal..too much drama for any woman to handle. I know it is tough, but there are soo many good guys out there give them a chance and u may really like yourself for it. |
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revenge only opens the door wider for karma to come back and kick you tenfold < < i understand your sentiments but i must ask, do the rules of karma apply if the revenge seeker has been horribly victimized. i believe (and you'd probably agree) that people who knowingly and willfully hurt innocent people are in fact opening the door for bad karma, but what about a victim seeking retribution for horrific things done to them. do the rules change, or do you think they stay the same? if someone perpatrates acts against you that leave you emotionally scarred for life, and you have a negative response toward that person for that, do the same rules apply? |
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well, mahj, you have a degree in canon law...what does scripture say about revenge...
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Ohh man..a philanderer..well honey..no woman has to put up w/that mess. Kick him to the curb, get him out of your mind... you are better off alone...how degrading. Yea friends??? Nah..cut throat end this Ordeal..too much drama for any woman to handle. I know it is tough, but there are soo many good guys out there give them a chance and u may really like yourself for it. mmmhhh well does not look like he is doin any better... |
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well, mahj, you have a degree in canon law...what does scripture say about revenge... < < excellent point, but i'm not christian so my canon law degree would not apply here. :-) |
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revenge only opens the door wider for karma to come back and kick you tenfold < < i understand your sentiments but i must ask, do the rules of karma apply if the revenge seeker has been horribly victimized. i believe (and you'd probably agree) that people who knowingly and willfully hurt innocent people are in fact opening the door for bad karma, but what about a victim seeking retribution for horrific things done to them. do the rules change, or do you think they stay the same? if someone perpatrates acts against you that leave you emotionally scarred for life, and you have a negative response toward that person for that, do the same rules apply? the karma will kick in on that bad person. if u seek revenge you keep the bad karma flowing. you have to end it somewhere. |
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revenge only opens the door wider for karma to come back and kick you tenfold < < i understand your sentiments but i must ask, do the rules of karma apply if the revenge seeker has been horribly victimized. i believe (and you'd probably agree) that people who knowingly and willfully hurt innocent people are in fact opening the door for bad karma, but what about a victim seeking retribution for horrific things done to them. do the rules change, or do you think they stay the same? if someone perpatrates acts against you that leave you emotionally scarred for life, and you have a negative response toward that person for that, do the same rules apply? the karma will kick in on that bad person. if u seek revenge you keep the bad karma flowing. you have to end it somewhere. Its simple.."What goes around comes around..eventually!"....so let it rest..save your energy. |
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revenge only opens the door wider for karma to come back and kick you tenfold < < i understand your sentiments but i must ask, do the rules of karma apply if the revenge seeker has been horribly victimized. i believe (and you'd probably agree) that people who knowingly and willfully hurt innocent people are in fact opening the door for bad karma, but what about a victim seeking retribution for horrific things done to them. do the rules change, or do you think they stay the same? if someone perpatrates acts against you that leave you emotionally scarred for life, and you have a negative response toward that person for that, do the same rules apply? the karma will kick in on that bad person. if u seek revenge you keep the bad karma flowing. you have to end it somewhere. Its simple.."What goes around comes around..eventually!"....so let it rest..save your energy. < < well, as much as i'd love to try and argue you down (tundraguy and cinderella), i can't. i don't like it one bit, but what you two are saying is logical. it's just hard not to want to pay a person back i guess. |
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revenge only opens the door wider for karma to come back and kick you tenfold < < i understand your sentiments but i must ask, do the rules of karma apply if the revenge seeker has been horribly victimized. i believe (and you'd probably agree) that people who knowingly and willfully hurt innocent people are in fact opening the door for bad karma, but what about a victim seeking retribution for horrific things done to them. do the rules change, or do you think they stay the same? if someone perpatrates acts against you that leave you emotionally scarred for life, and you have a negative response toward that person for that, do the same rules apply? the karma will kick in on that bad person. if u seek revenge you keep the bad karma flowing. you have to end it somewhere. Its simple.."What goes around comes around..eventually!"....so let it rest..save your energy. < < well, as much as i'd love to try and argue you down (tundraguy and cinderella), i can't. i don't like it one bit, but what you two are saying is logical. it's just hard not to want to pay a person back i guess. that is how you get ur revenge by moving forward onto a positive change. woo hoo cinderella and i win... victory dance lolol just kidding |
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