Topic: Age limiting
longbike's photo
Sun 11/16/08 05:37 AM
My question is this: Why is it that most women won't even consider a guy unless he is between the ages of 25 and 50? Anyone older or younger is left out in the cold.I'm 60 and would like to meet a lady that is 45 to 55 years of age. Why younger than me? Mainly because I'm active, ride motorcycles,and like to be with women that dress sexy. Most of the women "my age" dress like my grandmother and don't want anything to do with riding on the back of a bike.

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/16/08 07:24 AM
Well Im a little under your parameters and I can only answer for myself- I tend to only be interested in guys 8 years younger and/or 8 years older

To me men much older than 50 tend to look old and worn and they can't keep up- Don't get me wrong Im not a wild party girl but i do keep busy and I don't want an old man - no offense- who only wants to stay home and watch movies- thats fun occasionally but not all the time.

but again this is only MY opinion for whatever its worth

Good luckflowers

longbike's photo
Sun 11/16/08 03:07 PM
Please don't "lump " me into the OLD MAN group. If you look at my pic do I look like a stay at home? If anyone cares I'm into marathon sex and can "keep up" I'm an EMT/PCT in the emergency room doing 12 hour shifts full time. I guess that makes me fairly able to get out of my rocking chair!I just dislike type casting. Such as all blondes are dumb or All men 50+ look old and are ready for a wheel chair.I've been told I look in my 40's and I sure don't act 60!

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:39 PM

Please don't "lump " me into the OLD MAN group. If you look at my pic do I look like a stay at home? If anyone cares I'm into marathon sex and can "keep up" I'm an EMT/PCT in the emergency room doing 12 hour shifts full time. I guess that makes me fairly able to get out of my rocking chair!I just dislike type casting. Such as all blondes are dumb or All men 50+ look old and are ready for a wheel chair.I've been told I look in my 40's and I sure don't act 60!
Forgive me. I was not including you in my "generalization" I was just giving my opinion as this is what the forums are all about. correct? You asked a question and I answered it the way I felt. Nothing against you personally. As for your ability to have marathon sex? couldn't care less- wasn't even talking about that but hey!! thanks for sharing!! This is just an exchange of ideas. Sooooo you have a great day!!

longbike's photo
Sun 11/16/08 05:03 PM
You are correct! I went over the edge. Sorry. When you stated that older men couldn't keep up I thought you were speaking sexually,I misread your statement, my mistake.I think that if one limits theirself by age they may miss the best thing that could happen to them. I do limit myself to ladies around the age of 45 because I have a daughter that is close to that. I do not want to feel like I'm dating my daughter.I wish more people would meet others and judge them for the individuals they are, or at least read the whole profile. Again, sorry for the outburst and the misunderstanding.

sexismorbid's photo
Wed 11/19/08 09:50 PM
Good question. More importantly, why do most men decline to even entertain the notion of dating you if you exceed 400 pounds? It's seems like such an arbitrary number system to impose. I for one weigh a healthy 456 pounds and don't have any weight or health "issues". Granted, I only date men 170 or less, but that's just a personal preference as I carry myself much lighter than my actual size. So I agree completely with you, some people are just picky and delusional when it comes to dating!

PS - you don't look a day over 75.

mistarr's photo
Thu 11/20/08 06:09 AM
Could always lie about your age. A lot of women do that anyways.