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Topic: so when do chicks start noticing?
AimisApplejuice210's photo
Sun 12/14/08 09:48 AM
i joined a week ago and have searched a lil bit. im from a smaller town so i wouldnt figure there would be many girls from my town. But i just wanna know how long before anyone starts chatting? i mean ive tried other dating sites and have had no results looks like mingle is going to be another lost cause

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Sun 12/14/08 09:54 AM
sometimes weeks sometimes years

depends more on you

there is no magic wand. joining a dating site doesn't guarantee you'll get a date. It does guarantee that you'll meet people from all over if you put the effort into it

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Sun 12/14/08 09:54 AM
Join discussions in the forums. It is the best way to get noticed and you'll make some friends.

Many read the forums but don't actually post.

By participating you give people a chance to get to know you making the transition to more personal interaction easier.

Welcome and have fun! waving

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Sun 12/14/08 09:55 AM
smokin post nude pics...it helped mesmokin

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Sun 12/14/08 09:58 AM

i joined a week ago and have searched a lil bit. im from a smaller town so i wouldnt figure there would be many girls from my town. But i just wanna know how long before anyone starts chatting? i mean ive tried other dating sites and have had no results looks like mingle is going to be another lost cause


What have you done to make them notice you? Have you tried talking to women first?

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Sun 12/14/08 10:04 AM
yes i have sent messages w/ no replys lol thanks for makin me feel like crap ;) jk

AimisApplejuice210's photo
Sun 12/14/08 10:05 AM
im sure nude pics would help but i wouldnt want all the chicks talkin to me then there'd be none for the other guys on the site ;)

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Sun 12/14/08 10:05 AM
that is because women get hundreds of emails from guys.

you have to stand out to be noticed

posting here in the forums is a good place to start. that way they get to know you

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Sun 12/14/08 10:06 AM

yes i have sent messages w/ no replys lol thanks for makin me feel like crap ;) jk


Take a look at what you're sending them and try something different.

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Sun 12/14/08 10:06 AM


yes i have sent messages w/ no replys lol thanks for makin me feel like crap ;) jk


Take a look at what you're sending them and try something different.


yah, "hey sexy, hit me up" won't do it

AimisApplejuice210's photo
Sun 12/14/08 10:08 AM
true that... hey sexy jus kinda makes ya sound stalkerish. bad vibes wont get u anywehre thats for sure.

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Sun 12/14/08 10:10 AM



yes i have sent messages w/ no replys lol thanks for makin me feel like crap ;) jk


Take a look at what you're sending them and try something different.


yah, "hey sexy, hit me up" won't do it


Yet, so many guys still try that. laugh

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Sun 12/14/08 10:11 AM




yes i have sent messages w/ no replys lol thanks for makin me feel like crap ;) jk


Take a look at what you're sending them and try something different.


yah, "hey sexy, hit me up" won't do it


Yet, so many guys still try that. laugh
ya and I dont even know what "hit me up" means????noway

AimisApplejuice210's photo
Sun 12/14/08 10:11 AM
deffinitewly not my approach on it.

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Sun 12/14/08 10:12 AM
I prefer a gold letter embossed invitation to the ball!!!! and then I will have to think about it!!bigsmile

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Sun 12/14/08 10:12 AM

deffinitewly not my approach on it.


What kind of emails are you sending out that aren't getting you responses?

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Sun 12/14/08 10:13 AM
I've not seen you on before. Welcome and best wishes!!! Getting seen by posting really can bring some results. If not "love", lots of friends!!
Good luck!!! drinker

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Sun 12/14/08 10:14 AM
Stalk them...keep sending dirty emails to them...they like it:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Sun 12/14/08 10:14 AM

that is because women get hundreds of emails from guys.

I don't!! sad sad sad

AimisApplejuice210's photo
Sun 12/14/08 10:17 AM


that is because women get hundreds of emails from guys.

I don't!! sad sad sad


well thats probably b/c u dont have any photos of urself on here. photos really do help

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