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Topic: who wears the pants
synapsous's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:23 PM
i would go along with you ruth on that one.

Seakolony's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:26 PM

i was speaking metaphysically... in other words, i was just looking at all of us as spirits in physical bodies.

fear control (anger same thing) happiness sadness formation of thought through words all comes from a perspective from with in

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:26 PM

i would go along with you ruth on that one.


Of course, that's easier said than done, right?

Seakolony's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:28 PM
everything is easier said than done sometimes

synapsous's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:28 PM
well... that is why we need god. i was just thankfull that i was able to see what i sow about wearing of pants. as long as i can wear mine i am happy. now lets talk about comprimise and sacrifice. lol

synapsous's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:30 PM
and that is really who we are. i look at us as a spirit firstly.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:31 PM

and that is really who we are. i look at us as a spirit firstly.


So do I.

synapsous's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:33 PM
groovy.

synapsous's photo
Fri 12/19/08 08:57 PM
i am not saying that a relationship does not tak sacrafice and comprimise though
i am only pointing out that i like to wear my pants ok... lol, and she can wear hers. that way we are not running into control and the negativity that goes along with it. finally i feel that there is a fine line between caring and pants if i can say it that way. i care about my girlfriend very much, but i cannot control her.

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:03 PM

i am not saying that a relationship does not tak sacrafice and comprimise though
i am only pointing out that i like to wear my pants ok... lol, and she can wear hers. that way we are not running into control and the negativity that goes along with it. finally i feel that there is a fine line between caring and pants if i can say it that way. i care about my girlfriend very much, but i cannot control her.


Good for you for understanding that at such a young age. Some people never get it. Most relationships are a constant power struggle. Even the good ones.

synapsous's photo
Fri 12/19/08 09:12 PM
well drugs and booze also effect one's descernment of these things and judgement as well. i like to stay sober lol. and i feel that if someone is serious in a relationship they too might want to consider these things.

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