Topic: Wondering Why...
freeonthree's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:03 PM
I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis

freeonthree's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:06 PM



I find it hard to believe that guys don't approach her all the time. She's very attractive.

After lookin at her profile, I see that she is heavy into religion. Maybe thats why...


Well I don't know why she is single but its pretty clear where you are going wrong. laugh


Oh, please go on then, i'd love to know what it is im doing wrong. I thought I was doing just fine, but i've been wrong before. Dennis

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:13 PM

I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



I WILL NOT change telling the world about the Lord and what He has done in my life. If that keeps me from getting a man.....then so be it. The way I see it...what I write keeps me from getting the WRONG MAN! TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!

freeonthree's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:14 PM




You probably keep rejecting all the nice guys because they don't look they way you want. When a guy strikes up a conversation with you, he's showing some interest in getting to know you. If you don't take the time to get to know him a little, and just blow him off because he doesn't look amazing to you, your making a huge mistake.
Tha fact is, the best looking guys and girls in the world all look average to us after were with them for a while. Try giving the not so handsome guys a chance, and you'll find love and respect.


You soooooooo do not know me. I don't go after a man's looks! I go after what is in his heart. Looks are good, but in time will pass away. Please don't assume I am shallow, because I am not.


Im not assuming anything. Im just trying to figure out why you don't have to beat the men off with a stick. Your beautiful, so there must be something going on here...


Yea, men come onto me, but most are after one thing and I'm not that type of girl! Christ changed my life and I will not go back to who I used to be.


The keyword there is "most". Now what about the other men that approach you ?

freeonthree's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:16 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Wed 12/24/08 05:19 PM


I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



I WILL NOT change telling the world about the Lord and what He has done in my life. If that keeps me from getting a man.....then so be it. The way I see it...what I write keeps me from getting the WRONG MAN! TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!


I rest my case, good luck to you. Dennis

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:18 PM

I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



If you don't see how insulting this is than I can't help you. and the fact that you suggest she change her religious beliefs in order to find a man shows your own mysogynstic views.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:22 PM



I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



I WILL NOT change telling the world about the Lord and what He has done in my life. If that keeps me from getting a man.....then so be it. The way I see it...what I write keeps me from getting the WRONG MAN! TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!


I rest my case, good luck to you. Dennis


Wow. noway

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:22 PM


I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



If you don't see how insulting this is than I can't help you. and the fact that you suggest she change her religious beliefs in order to find a man shows your own mysogynstic views.

Thank you Ruth

krupa's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:23 PM

I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



No detriment to you or your faith....infact, KUDOS!...

But, no doubt about it. It is really hard for a guy to think that you may love an actual man more than my/themselves....it is even more frustrating to know that we can't compete against a god that you will love far more than us and no matter how hard a man might try....God will always be better.

What Dennis said is spot on accurate.

AllenAqua's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:23 PM
prolly like me and just too dang'd pickyohwell

freeonthree's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:25 PM


I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



If you don't see how insulting this is than I can't help you. and the fact that you suggest she change her religious beliefs in order to find a man shows your own mysogynstic views.


I never said she should change her beliefs, nor did I say anything insulting. Dennis

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:26 PM


I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



No detriment to you or your faith....infact, KUDOS!...

But, no doubt about it. It is really hard for a guy to think that you may love an actual man more than my/themselves....it is even more frustrating to know that we can't compete against a god that you will love far more than us and no matter how hard a man might try....God will always be better.

What Dennis said is spot on accurate.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:27 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Wed 12/24/08 05:29 PM



I find it hard to believe that guys don't approach her all the time. She's very attractive.

After lookin at her profile, I see that she is heavy into religion. Maybe thats why...


Well I don't know why she is single but its pretty clear where you are going wrong. laugh


laugh laugh laugh


It's unheard of for someone to be selective and not be with just anyone b/c they show interest.. What about everything else going on in their lives? Just maybe that's not her thing... I know it's usually not mine... You don't have to figure out why she's single, picky, religion, it's not for you to figure out.. The sea isn't as deep as rumored....

AllenAqua's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:28 PM


I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



I WILL NOT change telling the world about the Lord and what He has done in my life. If that keeps me from getting a man.....then so be it. The way I see it...what I write keeps me from getting the WRONG MAN! TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!



Well said flowerforyou

krupa's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:29 PM
Edited by krupa on Wed 12/24/08 05:32 PM
Don't come kick my @ss people...didn't say a single word to malice with forebearance towards anyone.

I was merely re-iterating a statement of personal experience.

But, I will ask this....Why am I reading an obviously religion based thread on the forums...is there a reason that this shouldn't be posted among the faithful?
cause honestly...it ain't my bag.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:30 PM

Don't come kick my @ss people...didn't say a single word to malice with forebearance towards anyone.

I was merely re-iterating a statement of personal experience.


I think it was the spot on accurate.. He wasn't, the only spot on would be removed with a good carpet cleaner....

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:30 PM


I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



No detriment to you or your faith....infact, KUDOS!...

But, no doubt about it. It is really hard for a guy to think that you may love an actual man more than my/themselves....it is even more frustrating to know that we can't compete against a god that you will love far more than us and no matter how hard a man might try....God will always be better.

What Dennis said is spot on accurate.


No man ever died for me, but Jesus did! No man will love me unconditionally, but Jesus does! No man can save my soul, but Jesus did!

I can love a man the way God showed me to and that is with all my heart and to be a helpmate to him, but you are right NO MAN will ever come before God with me, but I will respect and love him with the love God has put in me.

Thanks for your comment Krupa *Hug*

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:31 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Wed 12/24/08 05:32 PM
oops double post

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:33 PM
BeautyfromPain...I don't know you and we hold very different religious beliefs. But it looks like we are in the same boat when it comes to finding a man. laugh I will not settle or push aside my beliefs in order to make a man feel comfortable. If he is so insecure he has to feel he is more important than god than I don't want him.

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 12/24/08 05:34 PM


I see that your really into religion, and in my opinion, thats the reason men tend to shy away from you. Im not saying that you should change your profile, but your certainly limiting your chances of meeting a man with the one you have, in my opinion.
You may not believe this, but there are alot of good men out there who don't believe in any god. Dennis



No detriment to you or your faith....infact, KUDOS!...

But, no doubt about it. It is really hard for a guy to think that you may love an actual man more than my/themselves....it is even more frustrating to know that we can't compete against a god that you will love far more than us and no matter how hard a man might try....God will always be better.



What Dennis said is spot on accurate.


You sound very high maintenence.