Topic: Are you a cheap date?
ShagnaC's photo
Fri 01/02/09 05:59 PM
Starbucks and a walk in the park is a awesome date! I have even sprung for the coffee~

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Fri 01/02/09 05:59 PM
drinks Cheap and easy drinks

willing2's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:00 PM
You betcha'. I'm a cheap date and easy to. Buy me a coke and you'll own me!

justinc1431's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:00 PM
Edited by justinc1431 on Fri 01/02/09 06:00 PM
If a guy offers to pay you shouldn't feel like a bum. And if you really don't feel comfortable with him paying for something you should just express that to him. Most guys expect to pick up the tab for most dates. But I wouldn't mind a shugga momma to cover the bill once in a while. :wink:

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Fri 01/02/09 06:01 PM

Starbucks and a walk in the park is a awesome date! I have even sprung for the coffee~


that's the only way to do it! drinks :banana:

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Fri 01/02/09 06:01 PM

one thing i dont dig is taking me to dinner and using a buy one get one free coupon... especially not on a first date... my ex did that then when ever he paid we always had to go somewhere that he had a coupon for... once in a while was ok but cheap sob!!! when i took him out i never did that to him....


OMG thats crazy

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:01 PM

Well... I would prefer the term "inexpensive". :wink:







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luckyguy2008's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:01 PM

seeing how I had not been on a date in oh say 11+ yrs I really screwed up this summer. I just assumed that we were going dutch cause of the way it was set up, and I bought a bottle of wine. He would NOT let me pay for it and the poor guy only made $10 an hour. So I really felt like a bum. Anyways from now on I will be more careful...



love I will buy you a bottle anytime!!!love :heart: flowers

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Fri 01/02/09 06:02 PM
bottle of MadDog.....and a Honey.....

I'm Good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bigsmile devil bigsmile

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Fri 01/02/09 06:02 PM
I like that shugga momma :wink:

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Fri 01/02/09 06:03 PM


seeing how I had not been on a date in oh say 11+ yrs I really screwed up this summer. I just assumed that we were going dutch cause of the way it was set up, and I bought a bottle of wine. He would NOT let me pay for it and the poor guy only made $10 an hour. So I really felt like a bum. Anyways from now on I will be more careful...



love I will buy you a bottle anytime!!!love :heart: flowers

I might just have to take u up on that flowerforyou

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:05 PM

If a guy offers to pay you shouldn't feel like a bum. And if you really don't feel comfortable with him paying for something you should just express that to him. Most guys expect to pick up the tab for most dates. But I wouldn't mind a shugga momma to cover the bill once in a while. :wink:


dating horror story!!!

guy takes me out... we go for sunday brunch to Rock Bottom which is a freakin great brewery. he seems nice.. i like him so far... then we sit and the server hands us the menu... outta nowhere...

"Yeaaahh..." like all lundberg style "We're goin dutch" he says... noway noway noway

I stare at him. the server stares at him the booth across th way stares at him. he smiles at me. I order a salad and an iced tea which i practically inhale, pay for and got the hell outta there. rant

hands down embarassing. and he wondered for like 2 months straight why i didn't want ot see him again.

i dont mind dutch.. but a lil warning would have been nice
frustrated frustrated frustrated

misstina2's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:06 PM
you know some men will spend every dime they have on you,it's sweet but maybe not smart if they have other obligations they should be spending their money on.I'd rather be dating someone who had their priorities straight.

justinc1431's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:09 PM

you know some men will spend every dime they have on you,it's sweet but maybe not smart if they have other obligations they should be spending their money on.I'd rather be dating someone who had their priorities straight.

Bingo!

I love to be able to spoil my date. But when it comes down to it... gotta be able to pay the bills after the night is over.

fntsy6569's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:10 PM
Yes I guess I would be. I usually find out what the other person is having and then order something in the same price range or less.

misstina2's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:10 PM


you know some men will spend every dime they have on you,it's sweet but maybe not smart if they have other obligations they should be spending their money on.I'd rather be dating someone who had their priorities straight.

Bingo!

I love to be able to spoil my date. But when it comes down to it... gotta be able to pay the bills after the night is over.
drinker

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:15 PM
Yes & I'm easy to please

nogames39's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:17 PM
Besides, we either have equality or we don't.

I just don't get when she expects me to pay. She's allowed to work, doesn't she?

justinc1431's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:19 PM

Besides, we either have equality or we don't.

I just don't get when she expects me to pay. She's allowed to work, doesn't she?

I'm not touching that with a 30ft pole.

luckyguy2008's photo
Fri 01/02/09 06:20 PM


Besides, we either have equality or we don't.

I just don't get when she expects me to pay. She's allowed to work, doesn't she?

I'm not touching that with a 30ft pole.



Good Idea, I'm with you. :banana: scared drinks :banana: