Topic: Why does...
JenniferAld's photo
Thu 01/08/09 10:57 PM
Sex have to be the center of things for so many people? It's almost as though people hear the word 'virgin' and they think it's almost taboo!

Not gonna lie I'm a virgin and proud. I get questions like "WHAT IF YOU DON'T HAVE SEX FOR LIKE TEN YEARS!!!" So what if it takes that long for me to get married so be it.

I'm not saying that sex is wrong before marriage... If you choose to do so then so be it... but I think everyone needs to find a middle ground of respect for people who choose to do things opposite of them.

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:03 PM
good points, fellow virgin myself

Army_Strong's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:03 PM
Eh screw em.. Not litterally of course. But, they don't understand would be my best guess. Some people cant realize that theres more to it than "hey lets have sex" I dunno.. I've heard it used and work.. So, yeah I suppose that people need to find that middle ground.. But, by the time that happens the whole world will hold hands and sing koobiah or something. Which is sad.. But, whatever.. I respect someone who wants to hold on to it. I pissed mine away and yeah I can't say I regret it, because you can't regret things you've done they only make you stronger right?

alisha07's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:03 PM
me 2:angel:

JenniferAld's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:08 PM

whatever.. I respect someone who wants to hold on to it. I pissed mine away and yeah I can't say I regret it, because you can't regret things you've done they only make you stronger right?


I totally agree. I think that people really need to just respect other peoples decisions.... and not freak out when they find out someone stands different on the subject.

Then again I guess if that worked in life then everything in life would be so much simpler...

no photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:11 PM


been so long since ive had sex,i might as well be a virgin.i really dont put alot of emphasis on the sexual part of a relationship..i mean like after i give her the best 8 seconds of her life,
o.k sometimes i dont make the full 8 seconds,but one day im gonna ride that beast in the ground..:laughing:
sorry i guess i got carried away with my dreams of being a bull rider

Army_Strong's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:18 PM


whatever.. I respect someone who wants to hold on to it. I pissed mine away and yeah I can't say I regret it, because you can't regret things you've done they only make you stronger right?


I totally agree. I think that people really need to just respect other peoples decisions.... and not freak out when they find out someone stands different on the subject.

Then again I guess if that worked in life then everything in life would be so much simpler...


Exactly

alisha07's photo
Thu 01/08/09 11:19 PM
i respect youflowerforyou

JenniferAld's photo
Fri 01/09/09 08:50 AM

i respect youflowerforyou


Well thanks!drinker

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:47 AM
Sex is great & all, I'm more concerned with companionship & compatibility. If I have sex with someone on the first date , that's as far as it goes.

TJN's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:49 AM
It's the center of things cause our sex organs are in the center of our bodies laugh

krupa's photo
Fri 01/09/09 10:42 AM
Edited by krupa on Fri 01/09/09 10:43 AM
Just my take....If I am with a woman (as in Dating) and no sex is going to be involved....I would rather hang out with one of my buddies.....Sex is the one thing that a woman can provide me that my buddies cannot.

JenniferAld's photo
Fri 01/09/09 09:28 PM
I guess I just view it a lot differently.