Topic: Is it ok?
Army_Strong's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:12 AM
Edited by Army_Strong on Sat 01/10/09 11:17 AM
When someone who drove you up a wall and was way off they're rocker.. And, just irritated the hell out of you in general.. Is it ok to want to laugh at they're failures? Part of me chuckles everytime I see what that person has "where they are from" because she shows up in the people I might be interested in...

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Sat 01/10/09 11:13 AM
Kharma is a b!tch, my friend...I'd advise against it...

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:13 AM
whoa

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Sat 01/10/09 11:15 AM
Kind of childish actually....jmoohwell

cityblues21's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:16 AM
What goes around... comes around.

Army_Strong's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:17 AM
ok let me rephrase that... Is it OK to chuckle to yourself a little and not say anything to said person?

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Sat 01/10/09 11:17 AM
I can see laughing at the person in general. But being happy for their failures. it's is just not very classy

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Sat 01/10/09 11:19 AM

I can see laughing at the person in general. But being happy for their failures. it's is just not very classy


Not happy... Just chuckle? God.. I'm messed up.. That's it.. Oh well. That's who I am I guess.

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Sat 01/10/09 11:24 AM


I can see laughing at the person in general. But being happy for their failures. it's is just not very classy


Not happy... Just chuckle? God.. I'm messed up.. That's it.. Oh well. That's who I am I guess.
And what would really make YOU happy is to let them go, not worry about their success or failure, but go on living for you and what you want out of life....their life is what they make of it and be satisfied in knowing it is not your problem

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Sat 01/10/09 11:52 AM
Bah! I say chuckle, and you are right. We are who we are, why try to be someone else just to please others? Being yourself is the only way to be happy. I chuckle at people who said I would never do anything with my life when I was young, as they are still in the same situation and I'm moving on up in the world. Hell, if I see em, I'll chuckle in their face. Possibly even point and laugh. Besides, its not really laughing "at" them, its simply laughing that you overcame what they assumed you would be and ended up being nothing themselves, you chuckle because it makes you happy. Anyways, live life or die. I choose life.

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Sat 01/10/09 11:54 AM
what if the person dies in a fiery car crash? Would THAT make you chuckle?

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Sat 01/10/09 11:56 AM

Kharma is a b!tch, my friend...I'd advise against it...

What she said.

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Sat 01/10/09 11:58 AM

what if the person dies in a fiery car crash? Would THAT make you chuckle?


are you expecting an honest answer? because it's possible to hate someone so badly, you would be happy if they died. i'm just saying...

23mBoredinKilleen's photo
Sat 01/10/09 12:00 PM
Like above, it would really depend on how bad I hate them, even though love is the key to happiness and you should always forgive people, its just not in the human nature to do so. If that person were a rapist, would you laugh at them? I would, loudly.. and not to myself either.

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Sat 01/10/09 12:03 PM
I'm not sayin, I'm just sayin

it's a matter of degrees

If you're gonna wish ill on someone then you may as well go for the whole chimichanga

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Sat 01/10/09 12:04 PM


what if the person dies in a fiery car crash? Would THAT make you chuckle?


are you expecting an honest answer? because it's possible to hate someone so badly, you would be happy if they died. i'm just saying...

I agree. Still, what goes around comes around; and, Kharma really is a b!tch.

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Sat 01/10/09 12:15 PM
I try not to do anyone dirt but when you see someone who kicks sand in everyone's eye's over and over I think it is natural to feel a little relief when they get some of it back.

I am a big believer in what goes around comes around. Bad Karma everybody gets.

But good Karma is a little harder. To me it doesn't mean that being a good person that everything will be hearts and flowers but it does seem like that what you need to get through will come along. Which brings me back to seeing that there is justice in the world and while it doesn't always happen on que when someone hurts you it does seem to happen eventually.