Well Dale I'm surely not saying to stop doing anything for any women in
the future that you have done in the past for any woman you have dated
for each relationship deserves our best and all all each time that way
we can at least say we gave our all if it did not work out. I truly
believe that our past relationships are only a stepping stone to finding
the one that is truly the love we have been waiting for. And if I'm
wrong than so be it but will always have an open mind till the day I die
on that one. For the past has showed me that to be open minded and and
with an open heart going in is the best way to do it. Yeah some will say
ya got to guard your heart for they will just break it. But ya know
unless your willing to give your all how will you ever know if they are
the one. One of the main things in a relationship to me is Trust gotto
give it cant hold back thinking they can not be trusted give that trust
all the way. When things comes to a point in your mind this one could be
the one the feeling is returned is what I'm talking about then. You
should be able to give them that trust freely. Untill they break it then
pull back after it is broken it will have to be earned the second time
well that depends on how they broke it tho. As far as I'm concerned most
things can be talked about and worked out except one with me and thats
CHEATING. BUT..... now that is just my thoughts everyone sees things
differnt in ife and love. The older I have gotton I see things in a
whole new way campared to the way I did in my 20's. Some of the things
that bothered me then seems so small now.

Ohhh by the way is that not the dream of all dreams to find that true
love one that will return your love without a thought? All you have to
do is look at them and they feel what you feel they know when your down
and will be there by yourside till ya get past if for if it bothers you
they feel your hurt as well. They don't question themselves the things
they do for you or vise a verse. They are out there for all of us. I do
believe that but also believe in life we have to come to terms within
and don't settle till you find that one that fits what you want in a
person there personality and how they see the world too. Make sure that
connection is truly there take time to learn about them. And never
forget that it takes two to make a relationship work. Communication is
the key must he able to be able to talk things out.



Okay getting off my soap box. Well I have good intentions but naw have
not found my special one either. But these are just the way I see things
don't expect anyone to see eye to eye with me. For that is what makes us
all unique. Keeps us interested by others.

here here kitten!!