Topic: all that effort
flyace's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:35 AM

I was fending off the wolfs.


You mean wolves? laugh

Sorry Fade....:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:


yes wolves. thank you

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:35 AM

Try *colon detox it'll clear your mind, I mean colon. Oh whatever. Just flush away your problems.



*results may vary


Pebbles. Page two.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:36 AM


OFTLOG, are you kidding me?

Listen, don't post about mails if you are posting about mailing other posters.
We all send and receive mails that are ignored. We all get cut off in traffic and hae our parking spaces taken, the light goes out in the checkout line as soon as we get in it, etc.

GET OVER IT.


you call that pebbles???


Again, look in the mirror...not like you have been the most approachable in this thread.

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:36 AM

Is this a....NICE GUY thread in the makings or whatslaphead slaphead slaphead


Pebbles. Page three.

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:39 AM
My posts were quite sarcastic and facetious. Over the top obviously so. If you did not get that? I'm sorry. But you'd have to be obtuse and concrete not to.

Come on.

flyace's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:43 AM



OFTLOG, are you kidding me?

Listen, don't post about mails if you are posting about mailing other posters.
We all send and receive mails that are ignored. We all get cut off in traffic and hae our parking spaces taken, the light goes out in the checkout line as soon as we get in it, etc.

GET OVER IT.


you call that pebbles???


Again, look in the mirror...not like you have been the most approachable in this thread.


ok so I've been on the defensive here. so far only a hand full have even understood the point of the post.

prisoner's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:44 AM

My posts were quite sarcastic and facetious. Over the top obviously so. If you did not get that? I'm sorry. But you'd have to be obtuse and concrete not to.

Come on.
:smile: some people just don't get sarcasm my dear...be seeing you

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:57 AM

I was fending off the wolfs.


You mean wolves? laugh

Sorry Fade....:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:



No reason to apologize to me dearest smokin

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:58 AM
I thought you were going to send me to the Time Out thread....

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:58 AM
I'm headed out .. everyone play nice in the sandbox now .. or it's to the TIMEOUT room for you ...

On that note .. Lilith, have I ever seen you in there? We have the finest of duct tape yanno?

Didn't you use to have a friend who liked DT? :tongue:

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:59 AM

I thought you were going to send me to the Time Out thread....



OMG .. this is toooooooooooooo funny. didn't see your post til now :laughing:

ianminty2's photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:00 AM
i love a good old verbal sparring but arent we just pushing the boat out a bit to far, are we milking this cow for all its worth

my apologies my jokes aren't my best attributes.

but come on lets leave it here, i think we have established whats the right and wrong thing to do, when youve been ignored by someone via the email world, so lets not contradict our self on here.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:01 AM
This is turning out to be quite an effort!!

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:04 AM


Effort does not necessarily equal results when it comes to internet dating. Or any other form of dating now that I'm thinking about it. Either continue and hope for the best or change your approach to minimize the time you take for a first contact e-mail. In any case, it's best not to get upset about it since it will not help.


much better advice than etrain had to say. but none the less ineffective. simplifying the messages is boring.


First emails don't need to be long. Comment on something in their profile to start a conversation. You don't need to overdo it. Just don't send an email that says hi and that's it. That way, if they happen to not reply, you haven't wasted a ton of time.

flyace's photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:05 AM

My posts were quite sarcastic and facetious. Over the top obviously so. If you did not get that? I'm sorry. But you'd have to be obtuse and concrete not to.

Come on.


offtopic nice vocabulary poor grammar.offtopic

but I digress... I'm neither obtuse nor concrete, you come in with are you kidding me and get over it. yes I do fail to see the friendly banter vibe in that.

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:06 AM
I never said I was being friendly or trying to banter. laugh

Chris1957a's photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:11 AM
Yes ladies, why dont you respond?...granted you move on, but what does it take to say thanks but no thanks...1 minute? On another site I even drafted a rejection email and sent to a person that never responded saying "Hey next time you're not interested you can use this"....she responded then, let me have it with both barrels. oh well I got a reaction I guess

flyace's photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:11 AM
oh... I'm sorry. I mean really who would come to a forum for friendly banter. they would have to be obtuse...

and don't worry I don't think anyone who has read this thread will mistake you for friendly.

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:11 AM
Edited by singmesweet on Tue 01/27/09 10:12 AM
Oh boy. This thread got more interesting after the post I responded to. laugh

I think it's funny that some men assume they're the only ones being the first to contact people and the only ones that have written emails that aren't responded to.

no photo
Tue 01/27/09 10:13 AM

oh... I'm sorry. I mean really who would come to a forum for friendly banter. they would have to be obtuse...

and don't worry I don't think anyone who has read this thread will mistake you for friendly.


Oh, but Lilith is friendly!