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Topic: What's wrong with me? What do I look like?
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Fri 02/06/09 08:23 PM
You have the face of a movie star. It is not boring. You should get into the movies. I bet you have a nice smile.

I am one of those "painfully old" ones, and thanks a lot!

But I would never hit on anyone younger than 35. laugh laugh

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Fri 02/06/09 08:48 PM
Edited by Blaze1978 on Fri 02/06/09 08:50 PM


I read your profile... hmmm I'm thinking that you have a little inter conflict going on.. Facing fact and having low self-esteem can be the same thing depending on how it's done...

No you don't look gay and gay men usually go for attractive men, so although it may seem like a negative thing at the same time it's a compliment. As for the grandmom's, well I'm not sure what you consider a grandmom as you're only 21 most of us could be to you I guess...

Good luck!




Yeah, people do say I have low self-esteem but it's all been proven. It can't be a esteem issue if it's been proven (I can't even spell. See what I'm saying)? Is this really normal? Most of the people I have some fine girlfriends and even kids. but that's just my luck. I'll be walking down the street holding hands with some lady and people think I'm going with my grandmother. Is this really natural?


You're asking these things at your young age...wait until you get to be my age (I'm 30). Yeah, being alone sucks, but at some point, you've got to change your attitude. Hold your head up high, try to at least appear confident (even if you don't feel confident at a given time) and you're sure to get some positive results.

Take me. Years ago, I used to go out into the world with a cloud over my head. I was unhappy, and it showed. Then one day, I told myself I was going to hold my head up, smile and not slouch no matter what happened. On the very first day I did, women definitely took notice...I had a really hot one approach me that same day, and I could tell she was noticing my new approach.

If no one is approaching you, then you're probably sending out vibes that make younger women uncomfortable. Women just don't like the "sad, pity me" look because it implies you have baggage.

The world is not out to get you. Women don't all belong to some exclusive underground group that gets together at a secret nightclub every Friday night to discuss who won't be getting any. It's you.

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Sat 02/07/09 12:08 AM
I need to see you walk........do you sashay??? piroet???? I need to see the walk before I can answer....laugh

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Sat 02/07/09 01:58 PM
honest advice:
I think you'd look younger if you got rid of the facial hair. Also, how do you dress? A nice pair of jeans and t-shirt could make a difference in intitial attraction. Be confident...Actually ASK someone YOU are interested in, out on a date! You might be surprised.
You are not a bad looking guy. It must be something else...

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Sat 02/07/09 06:14 PM
you look normal to meflowerforyou

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