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Topic: once a cheat always a cheat
misstina2's photo
Wed 03/04/09 11:53 AM
Do you think this statement is true?Would you date someone who admitted to cheating in the past?

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/04/09 11:56 AM
It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person.

But yes, I have, I would, and I am.

I did it once myself. I learned my lesson.

Now my ex?

He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who...


misstina2's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:01 PM

It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person.

But yes, I have, I would, and I am.

I did it once myself. I learned my lesson.

Now my ex?

He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who...


I do believe people can changeflowerforyou I would inquire if they came clean and were sorry for their actionsflowerforyou

Theshortelktonman's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:06 PM
from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:08 PM

Do you think this statement is true?Would you date someone who admitted to cheating in the past?
flowerforyou Probably.bigsmile As lomg as they dont cheat on me.bigsmile

jtip1977's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:09 PM
I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:09 PM

It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person.

But yes, I have, I would, and I am.

I did it once myself. I learned my lesson.

Now my ex?

He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who...




noway dang.noway Now thats a tiger that wont change his stripesflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:09 PM


It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person.

But yes, I have, I would, and I am.

I did it once myself. I learned my lesson.

Now my ex?

He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who...


I do believe people can changeflowerforyou I would inquire if they came clean and were sorry for their actionsflowerforyou





bigsmile People can changeflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:10 PM

from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good.



bigsmile I always wonder why karma never brings anything good.bigsmile Only bad.bigsmile

misstina2's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:11 PM

from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good.
flowerforyou what goes around comes arounds rings trueflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:11 PM

I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again.



drinker I think that if a person has cheated in the past that doesnt mean they will always do that.bigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:12 PM


from experience I have found out that Karma is a ***** so for the most part I will ask what came of there relationship they had with the person the cheated with while dating the other person. For the Majority of the people I have met the outcome is not good.
flowerforyou what goes around comes arounds rings trueflowerforyou



flowerforyou Sometimesbigsmile

misstina2's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:14 PM

I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again.
you mean just one time or one person?

no photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:14 PM
i think most men r cheaters, long term relationships tend to lead to cheating.they may love us but want to try something different,i have been with my man for five years and after my baby was born he cheated on me and had to tell me because he had caught some thing.i met him while he was with someone else but later found out that hes girlfreind was pregnant and he was married but not to the pregnant women.i left him but he finished with the other women and we got together but then he cheated on me five years later, so once a cheat always a cheat u carnt trust any man

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:18 PM


I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again.
you mean just one time or one person?





flowerforyou I think that he means if you cheat two different timesflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:18 PM

i think most men r cheaters, long term relationships tend to lead to cheating.they may love us but want to try something different,i have been with my man for five years and after my baby was born he cheated on me and had to tell me because he had caught some thing.i met him while he was with someone else but later found out that hes girlfreind was pregnant and he was married but not to the pregnant women.i left him but he finished with the other women and we got together but then he cheated on me five years later, so once a cheat always a cheat u carnt trust any man

bigsmile Its a crime of oppurtunityflowerforyou

etihn's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:18 PM
flowerforyou

It has a tendency to be true. It just depends on the situation and how it was communicated to me. Guilt and remorse say a lot. Not just getting caught, but if it changed who they were as a person.

But yes, I have, I would, and I am.

I did it once myself. I learned my lesson.

Now my ex?

He cheated on the person he was with when we met. I did not even know he was seeing anyone until we were living together... He cheated on me with his second soon to be ex-wife, and cheated on her with god knows who...




Liars never lose trust because they never had it, and a lie never lives to be old. Here endith the Gospel according to etihn.flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:19 PM



I do believe people can learn from their mistakes. Studies have shown that if you cheat once, doesn't necessarily mean you'll do it again. BUT if you cheat twice, chances are you're going to do it again.
you mean just one time or one person?





flowerforyou I think that he means if you cheat two different timesflowerforyou
I think most cheaters hit it all they canflowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:20 PM

i think most men r cheaters, long term relationships tend to lead to cheating.they may love us but want to try something different,i have been with my man for five years and after my baby was born he cheated on me and had to tell me because he had caught some thing.i met him while he was with someone else but later found out that hes girlfreind was pregnant and he was married but not to the pregnant women.i left him but he finished with the other women and we got together but then he cheated on me five years later, so once a cheat always a cheat u carnt trust any man


Oh you got me beat by a MILE!!!!

therapy30's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:21 PM

Do you think this statement is true?Would you date someone who admitted to cheating in the past?

generally:smile:

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