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I am a cut up but no so much a flirt in a relationship or not. And I am the first to tell people if you are busy flirting with all and sundry don't expect serious attention from me other than friendship. If you have committed to trying a relationship with someone then flirting should be put to the side while you explore that relationship. In short I feel that the time and attention should be spent on the relationship and not all and sundry. I am not saying that you should neglect friends and pals but I think it should be toned down from flirting to friends only. I have passed on a couple of really great guys for this basic reason. They are flirts and it isn't going to change. But my feelings about the situation isn't going to change either. And it isn't a jealousy issue so much as it's a respect issue. If you have respect for the person you are with why would you want to embarrass or humiliate them by paying attention to someone else in a non friend manner especially in public?  on here however flirting isn't always taken seriouslyjust because someone gives you a little compliment doesn't mean the person is interested i pursuing a relationship
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I get people flirting all the time and I just don't get it. I do not know their intentions because they mask it with stupidly overbearing flirtatious behavior. From compliments on my beautiful hair to compliments on my cute ass. I'm left out in the cold on how to treat these situations for I don't know their intent. I'm very untrusting.
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I get people flirting all the time and I just don't get it. I do not know their intentions because they mask it with stupidly overbearing flirtatious behavior. From compliments on my beautiful hair to compliments on my cute ass. I'm left out in the cold on how to treat these situations for I don't know their intent. I'm very untrusting. or at least hint around that they're interested in meeting
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I am a cut up but no so much a flirt in a relationship or not. And I am the first to tell people if you are busy flirting with all and sundry don't expect serious attention from me other than friendship. If you have committed to trying a relationship with someone then flirting should be put to the side while you explore that relationship. In short I feel that the time and attention should be spent on the relationship and not all and sundry. I am not saying that you should neglect friends and pals but I think it should be toned down from flirting to friends only. I have passed on a couple of really great guys for this basic reason. They are flirts and it isn't going to change. But my feelings about the situation isn't going to change either. And it isn't a jealousy issue so much as it's a respect issue. If you have respect for the person you are with why would you want to embarrass or humiliate them by paying attention to someone else in a non friend manner especially in public? on here however flirting isn't always taken seriouslyjust because someone gives you a little compliment doesn't mean the person is interested i pursuing a relationship I agree that to give someone a compliment isn't always a come on, especially on here. But can you tell me truthfully you would be comfortable with your s/o telling someone how hot they are and falling all over themselves drooling in the threads in front of other people who know that the two of you are trying to be an item? Not me. It's tacky and very disrespectful. |
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Edited by
misstina2
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Fri 03/06/09 07:54 AM
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I am a cut up but no so much a flirt in a relationship or not. And I am the first to tell people if you are busy flirting with all and sundry don't expect serious attention from me other than friendship. If you have committed to trying a relationship with someone then flirting should be put to the side while you explore that relationship. In short I feel that the time and attention should be spent on the relationship and not all and sundry. I am not saying that you should neglect friends and pals but I think it should be toned down from flirting to friends only. I have passed on a couple of really great guys for this basic reason. They are flirts and it isn't going to change. But my feelings about the situation isn't going to change either. And it isn't a jealousy issue so much as it's a respect issue. If you have respect for the person you are with why would you want to embarrass or humiliate them by paying attention to someone else in a non friend manner especially in public? on here however flirting isn't always taken seriouslyjust because someone gives you a little compliment doesn't mean the person is interested i pursuing a relationship I agree that to give someone a compliment isn't always a come on, especially on here. But can you tell me truthfully you would be comfortable with your s/o telling someone how hot they are and falling all over themselves drooling in the threads in front of other people who know that the two of you are trying to be an item? Not me. It's tacky and very disrespectful. dicussing the matter with that person to explain how i felt about it I certainly would do
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Everytime I see anything on flirting, I'm reminded of an old tv comedy sketch where david crosby from crosby, stills, nash, and young is walking down the street, hair down, can of soda in his hand, minding his own business. Three bubble headed flirtatious blondes walking in the other direction check him out. The first one looks at his ass and says "Nice jeans". He says "Thanks". The next blonde says flirtingly "What kind are they"? He replies "Guess". Another blonde replies "Levis"? He says "No! Guess". Another blonde says "Lee jeans"? He says "Noooooo! Guess"! Another blonde says "Wranglers"? He says "No you bubblehead blondes!!! They are guess brand jeans! God you're all stupid"!!! The 3 blondes look at each other as david stomps off and one of them says to the others "Calvin kleins"?
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 I fly into jealous rages when my significant other flirts with someone else
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I fly into jealous rages when my significant other flirts with someone else you can fly?
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I flirt with my friends
It's fun Oh wait ... what's flirting? I don't know what that is 
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I flirt with my friends It's fun Oh wait ... what's flirting? I don't know what that is
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this question was meant for flirtations anywhere here or in real life Same applies....I am a flirt always have been a flirt and hubby knows it......But there is a point where you can cross the line....never have......so I think it applies to all. |
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this question was meant for flirtations anywhere here or in real life Same applies....I am a flirt always have been a flirt and hubby knows it......But there is a point where you can cross the line....never have......so I think it applies to all. I see no issue
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