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Topic: W.............T..................F
tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/09/07 04:52 AM
WHO



TELLS



FALSEHOODS?



AND DON'T LIE!



We all have to do it from time to time even to spare someones feelings/


Have it be someones bad hair cut, saying it looks fine.

To the big lies...


How many times do ewe lie a day?


Statistics say.................

Forget the stats...

Ok how often.....

???????????????????????????????????

DON'T LIE!!!

jeanc200358's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:00 AM
I'm certainly not going to say I've "never" lied, but I don't just go
around arbitrarily lying for no reason. I don't tell someone their hair
looks good if I don't think it does. Depending on who the person is, I'd
likely not say anything.

If it was my daughter, I'd say, "What the HELL have you done to your
hair?" I said that the time I came home from living out of state for a
while and came back to find out she'd dyed her beautiful blond hair
Gotchic black. I almost cried.

Now she has her hair a pretty shade of red, which is very becoming on
her, and I tell her that, too.

I don't lie about my age, who I am, what I want, my social status, my
weight, etc., etc.

I don't lie and tell men I like them when I don't like them.

I don't lie in order to spare someone's feelings. If asked my opinion,
I'll give it. If I don't like a dress someone's wearing, I'll tell them,
but I'll likely say, "I like the "blue" one on you better," or something
like that.

Generally speaking, I'm just barebones honest; I can't think of any time
in recent years I've just outright told a lie.

Jess642's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:03 AM
Don't ask, if you don't want the truth.

If you want to hear gushy ego stroke rubbish...there's other people who
will feed you.

It won't be me.

I can't be bothered lying, fibbing, garnishing.

If you can't handle the truth..don't ask me.

oldsage's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:07 AM
Amen Jess.

The truth can be said nicely.

" If you can't say something nice,
don't say anything at all."

Another old saying. Maybe called "Manners"?

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:20 AM
Hummm I'm with Jesse here don't ask me if you don't wannt the
truth.bigsmile


Yeah at times those little half truths are said in order not to hurt
ones feelings.


But...... on a normal day ask me a question and I'm sure to have and
answer for you might not be what you want to heer but should not ask it
then


Hummm ask my boss he knows better than ask me something cause I will go
straight to the point laugh laugh laugh

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/09/07 05:24 AM
If daughter comes home after a weekend from her dad's

which she did this weekend with her beautiful hair cut off
:cry:

She asked if I liked it..


I said yes..

Cuz she was happy...

End of story

It is only hair.......:cry:

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:06 AM
I hear ya tulip my daughter did the same thing at one time but my kids
know how I am I told her I liked it long but it did not look bad would
just take me some time getting use to it lol which I did and now love
the way she does it but no stuff like that I am not harsh with them but
they know I'm not gonna sugar coat it that is a deal we 3 have. If I ask
them anything they will tell me the truth might not want to but that is
one area I was very strick with my kids was don't tell me no lies and
I'll will back you to the extreme no matter what it was. Mine are 24 &
22 now and that still stands I just do not pry into there business now
but still will throw a curve ball at them once in a while just to see

Phoenix0311's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:08 AM
I have to in my job... not proud of it but sometimes it has to be
doneembarassed frown embarassed

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:10 AM
aw thanks txs she is 16.

alovely talented young woman..

and her dad has control when she is there

not to mention she is old enought to make certain decissions like her
hair..

such lovely brunnett hair she had..

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:10 AM
Hummm hey looks mighty fine to look at beside our jobs are so demanding
ya know lolbigsmile


thank ya bigsmile flowerforyou

Phoenix0311's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:14 AM
:wink: Any time

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:18 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:19 AM
phoen ,ewe a sales man or what with lyin"""

Phoenix0311's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:20 AM
....laugh laugh laugh , no not a salesmanlaugh

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:21 AM
O

Phoenix0311's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:24 AM
....is that a doughnut????huh

izzyva's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:33 AM
A couple of times a day, But i give them a lot of thought so people can
believed me.




Izzy
devil

Greyhound's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:37 AM
I would lie to spare someone feelings from getting hurt.blushing

jeanc200358's photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:44 AM
So, it's only hair. It's not her. In my particular case, I HATED it. She
had told me she was thinking about it...her hair was down to her butt
and she literally has enough hair for five people, so I told her, if you
do it, do it with a rinse so that it'll rinse out eventually.

But does she? Noooo! She dyes it a in PERMANENT black. Only way to ever
get it back to its original color would be to cut it and let it grow
out.

Her hair looked like absolute SHI*. She is very pale and she chose the
most raven-black hair. I'm not about to sugarcoat my opinion on
something like that just to spare her feelings; she knew up front what
I'd think about it.

Within a week (just as I predicted) she was tired of it and she hated it
herself.

She is very secure in that she knows just because I didn't like her HAIR
does not mean I don't love HER.

We're comfortable being honest with each other and giving our truthful
opinions about our clothes, hair and makeup. And, she respects my
opinion, as I do hers.

no photo
Wed 05/09/07 06:52 AM
I will lie to save anothers feelings ....I know its a bad thing to do
ohwell

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