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Topic: Why do ppl have to 2 faced?
nicenurse64 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 3849	Wed 05/06/09 07:42 AM
why do guys have to be 2 faced. they talk to u for a while then meet leave things on good standings and you are expecting to see and talk to them again like nothing is wrong then couple hrs later they up and text you and say oh i dont want to get to know you anymore sorry. WTF IS THAT? there is 2 things in this world i HATE more than anything. A LIAR & CHEATER. ANY INSIGHT THAT can be givin?? sorry had to vent and maybe see if anyone knew. HAPPY HUNTING lol So a guy or girl is talking to somebody for awhile, meets them, is polite and cordial, then texts later on that they are no longer interested. We should all be so lucky that people tell us how they feel so early instead of stringing us along. Just how does this make anybody a liar or a cheater????? This seems like a person just being downright honest. The only thing I dislike when meeting a new person is them expecting things of me when they don't even know me yet. As I was reading this and other posts including the OP. I thought the very same thing. It sounds like you had "high expectations" going into that meet. Something just apparently didn't click for him on the actual f "face to face". . So he did the best thing and said sorry I don't want to get to know you any more. so now men are condemed as being liars and cheaters? give me a break.. you don't think women do this very same thing? wish I had a dollar ever time it happens to either sex. take it in stride and find someone who does want to be with you. MOVE ON> JMO AMEN & HIGH FIVE! Preach it, Brother!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 08:51 AM
why do guys have to be 2 faced. they talk to u for a while then meet leave things on good standings and you are expecting to see and talk to them again like nothing is wrong then couple hrs later they up and text you and say oh i dont want to get to know you anymore sorry. WTF IS THAT? there is 2 things in this world i HATE more than anything. A LIAR & CHEATER. ANY INSIGHT THAT can be givin?? sorry had to vent and maybe see if anyone knew. HAPPY HUNTING lol So a guy or girl is talking to somebody for awhile, meets them, is polite and cordial, then texts later on that they are no longer interested. We should all be so lucky that people tell us how they feel so early instead of stringing us along. Just how does this make anybody a liar or a cheater????? This seems like a person just being downright honest. The only thing I dislike when meeting a new person is them expecting things of me when they don't even know me yet. i agree with this... perhaps he thought a little more in the 2 hours and something about you didnt click with him.. then he told you.. so? and how does cheating have to do with any of this? everyone has the right to change their mind about something

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 05/06/09 08:53 AM
Why do women have to be two faced?

nicenurse64 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 3849	Wed 05/06/09 09:00 AM
Why do women have to be two faced? It's not a matter of MEN or WOMEN (being two~faced), the whole world is the same

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 09:01 AM
Why do women have to be two faced? i guess i am in this case...cause ive gone to meet people as friends and when they showed interest more than friends<when i was single> and i didnt have those vibes i told them so.. so guess im 2 faced cause i left the meeting and didnt tell them off first i mean hello? seems there were some interest or i would not of met them? however there were no sparks for a relationship.. perhaps something bothered me a bit about them and wasnt sure etc maybe he didnt take a bath<or smelt like he didnt for a week> maybe i should of told them OMFG you stink!!! i have no interest in smelling your body for the rest of my life!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 09:03 AM
facts are... after one date or 3 for that fact.. no one owes anyone an explanation.. it just wasnt right so move on...

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Wed 05/06/09 09:06 AM
facts are... after one date or 3 for that fact.. no one owes anyone an explanation.. it just wasnt right so move on... can you cuddle me too.!!!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 09:11 AM
facts are... after one date or 3 for that fact.. no one owes anyone an explanation.. it just wasnt right so move on... can you cuddle me too.!!! it wouldnt be the first date... you wont see me on here making a thread... oh why did he do that to me? cuddle me and leave me? when in fact i allowed the cuddling warning just dont leave your shirt unbuttoned! now that would make it real hard to resist!

AGoodGuy1026 Joined Wed 04/22/09 Posts: 1333	Wed 05/06/09 09:11 AM
i dont have "online relationships". and it is a case of bein a liar b/c i asked after meeting " so i see u later he said yes" then couple hrs later says somethin totally different. thats how. and i was stating a fact that i dont like liars or cheaters. bring on the flames, but I see two sides to this: 1. he was not strong enough to tell you the truth 2. you pressured him to your agenda... maybe just dont ask next time, let the visit stand on its own... if he calls he's interested... if not, you did not put to much pressure on and will be less dissapointed if he does not call... At least he didnt say "i'm going out of town this weekend, maybe we can chat when I get back"... I have heard that too many times from women... Yes, I would also have like to have heard "I'm just not that into you"... it's OK, WE JUST MET!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 09:12 AM
and to the OP i wasnt trying to be mean to ya.... its just sometimes you hit and sometimes you miss... looks like this time it was the latter

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Wed 05/06/09 09:12 AM
facts are... after one date or 3 for that fact.. no one owes anyone an explanation.. it just wasnt right so move on... can you cuddle me too.!!! it wouldnt be the first date... you wont see me on here making a thread... oh why did he do that to me? cuddle me and leave me? when in fact i allowed the cuddling warning just dont leave your shirt unbuttoned! now that would make it real hard to resist!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 09:15 AM
facts are... after one date or 3 for that fact.. no one owes anyone an explanation.. it just wasnt right so move on... can you cuddle me too.!!! it wouldnt be the first date... you wont see me on here making a thread... oh why did he do that to me? cuddle me and leave me? when in fact i allowed the cuddling warning just dont leave your shirt unbuttoned! now that would make it real hard to resist! u are one delicious man, inside and out... i could eat you up!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Wed 05/06/09 09:18 AM
facts are... after one date or 3 for that fact.. no one owes anyone an explanation.. it just wasnt right so move on... can you cuddle me too.!!! it wouldnt be the first date... you wont see me on here making a thread... oh why did he do that to me? cuddle me and leave me? when in fact i allowed the cuddling warning just dont leave your shirt unbuttoned! now that would make it real hard to resist! u are one delicious man, inside and out... i could eat you up! lets take this to another thread, these pretzels are mmmakin me thirsty.!!!!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 05/06/09 09:30 AM
Why do women have to be two faced? It's not a matter of MEN or WOMEN (being two~faced), the whole world is the same Explain that to the OP

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 05/06/09 09:43 AM
why do guys have to be 2 faced. HAPPY HUNTING lol We all suck. Sorry I had to be the one to break the news.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 09:47 AM
why do guys have to be 2 faced. HAPPY HUNTING lol We all suck. Sorry I had to be the one to break the news. really? interesting

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 05/06/09 09:48 AM
why do guys have to be 2 faced. HAPPY HUNTING lol We all suck. Sorry I had to be the one to break the news. really? interesting I try to be informative and entertaining at the same time.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Wed 05/06/09 09:54 AM
why do guys have to be 2 faced. HAPPY HUNTING lol We all suck. Sorry I had to be the one to break the news. really? interesting I try to be informative and entertaining at the same time.

blueeyed_828 Joined Fri 04/17/09 Posts: 30	Wed 05/06/09 07:54 PM
ok so much for posting any more threads on here. was told there were ppl that were good to talk to. but i cant get no one to see my point. and ( CHEATING DIDNT HAVE NOTHIN TO DO WITH IT. I JUS DONT LIKE IT.) all i seem to get is " you read to much into it, get over it." etc.. oh well.

Robin2007 Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 253	Sat 05/09/09 09:22 AM
Hey blueeyed,my name is Robin and just came across your posting and I do apologize for such a twit of a guy.You'd think most guys would have grown up these days,but I'm sorry to say that most guy out there are still at their adolecent stage and all they are interested in doing is scoring with a woman,that way they can add a new notch to their belt. My advice would be to look for someone with a good head of his shoulders & also someone who's gonna be totally straight forward with you and not bail due to Cowardness.