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Topic: I need advice
msskarly Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 357	Tue 05/12/09 07:02 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 05/12/09 07:05 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know! he is like all men, we are all territorial.

johncarl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 5074	Tue 05/12/09 07:06 PM
me i never go back. i will talk to them. but if they cant be friends again i break it off all together.

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Tue 05/12/09 07:06 PM
You know we would ALL say don't go back. But it is up to YOU on what to do.

msskarly Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 357	Tue 05/12/09 07:06 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know! he is like all men, we are all territorial. So he doesnt want me but he doesnt want anyone else to want me?

shortnskinny Joined Sun 03/08/09 Posts: 92	Tue 05/12/09 07:07 PM
possessive.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 05/12/09 07:07 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know! Fck him, apparently he wants to fck you. JMO

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 05/12/09 07:07 PM
You want to teach him a real lesson? Marry him

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 05/12/09 07:08 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know! Red flags - Doesn't love you, nosy, says he doesn't want to be with you.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 05/12/09 07:09 PM
You want to teach him a real lesson? Marry him LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!

prisoner Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 5129	Tue 05/12/09 07:10 PM
restraining order,then drop me an e-mail be seeing you

southgaangel Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 366	Tue 05/12/09 07:10 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know! men seem to want what they think they can't have...then when they have it they loose interest. NO don't go back...NEVER go back...do send him a recent pic of you with your new friend

southgaangel Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 366	Tue 05/12/09 07:12 PM
You want to teach him a real lesson? Marry him HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PATS you crack me up!!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 05/12/09 07:15 PM
You want to teach him a real lesson? Marry him LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Tue 05/12/09 07:21 PM
he may just want to keep you as an option

KOKOA Joined Wed 05/09/07 Posts: 2	Tue 05/12/09 07:24 PM
I had an ex like that recently too. When he tells you something like he doesn't love you, but his actions say diff, listen to WHAT HE SAYS! Even though he's giving you mixed signals, imo, he's telling you that he's just not that into you. I know, it's a movie, but a good one. It is completely up to you, but you should prob go with your gut. Women have intuition for a reason. You two broke up for a reason and if you're questioning this much, then is it really worth it?

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Tue 05/12/09 07:25 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know! he is like all men, we are all territorial. well hellow my friend lonk time its been

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 05/12/09 07:29 PM
hi dere ike dude

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Tue 05/12/09 08:20 PM Edited by durtydduck on Tue 05/12/09 08:21 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know! wow. role reversal.. I went through that for the last year and half sme thing she would call all the time do the same thing. so I can only speak from my personal experience.. GET OFF THAT TRAIN AND TELL HIM TO GO SCRATCH!. I know it's hard . It is hard but you have to do it and move on... he has but he wants to dangle that carrot in front of you like a fisherman with a fish on the hook but doesn't reel them in . Just so he can keep jerking you around. no charge free lollipop for you on this one.

bribrat Joined Thu 04/23/09 Posts: 21	Tue 05/12/09 08:25 PM
Stop taking his calls! Change your number if you have to! Do not go back! He is just trying to keep you as a reserve, possibly just a booty call. He's testing you to see if you are going to keep waiting for him to want you, but obviously he doesn't! Move on. You will be better off!!!