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wader78's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:12 AM
I am really confused i guess to the fact that no one ever replies to my messages...? Is this site not for meeting people oR? lol It's not that i expect it, but i have been messaging people for like a month and i get no responses? I guess i'll have to post more pics?

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:14 AM
Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, some users (.01%) get 100 new emails a day if they have a great picture up. People like that don't have time to read your message even if they wanted to

italio69's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:16 AM
just keep your head up eventualy someone show interest in youdrinker

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Sun 06/14/09 05:19 AM
Edited by Unknow on Sun 06/14/09 05:20 AM
I just had a conversation with a friend on here about this! Some peeps don't even want to give a simple no t.y. if thier not interested. They just delete. ( I am a little guilty in doing that also) I will change my ways though and at least respond!...my friend won't though laugh If he's not interested he don't see why he should bother starting a convo.
Hang in there dude..get in the forums more...lotsa, lotsa nice peeps here!

wader78's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:31 AM
Thanks all:) Yeah, maybe i just need to be more patient:) hahaha... I'm a great catch, looking for the women who loves kids too you know? I have three amazing little girls, i'm not sure i guess, i have messaged a few very decent women that have kids of there own, and no response...lol. Oh well... I'll keep my head up, God's got a plan:)

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:31 AM
What serial killer mug shot should I put up next?

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Sun 06/14/09 05:36 AM
I think your profile looks fine.U have an adequate amount of info.in regards to yourself however U may want to describe some expectations pertaining to the significant other whom U seek.There are many factors that contribute to a low feedback ratio but keep in mind that forum participation is vital to your success. This is your 1st post within the forums actually.Stay pos. & upbeat K.Godspeed!Cy

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 06/14/09 05:44 AM

What serial killer mug shot should I put up next?


Rachel Carson

krupa's photo
Sun 06/14/09 06:22 AM
Edited by krupa on Sun 06/14/09 06:23 AM
Patience bro.

There are lots of reasons someone may or may not respond.

Think of it this way. When you are fishing, you don't cast your lure once...reel it in then say "Well, Hell...No fish in this lake"

I would suggest posting more in the forums. Profiles are nice but, conversations in the forums are a really good way to introduce yourself to alot of people and is an easy going, no pressure way of letting people know what kind of guy you are.

Hell...when I got here I couldn't get the time of day for months!

tracy13's photo
Sun 06/14/09 08:09 AM

Patience bro.

There are lots of reasons someone may or may not respond.

Think of it this way. When you are fishing, you don't cast your lure once...reel it in then say "Well, Hell...No fish in this lake"

I would suggest posting more in the forums. Profiles are nice but, conversations in the forums are a really good way to introduce yourself to alot of people and is an easy going, no pressure way of letting people know what kind of guy you are.

Hell...when I got here I couldn't get the time of day for months!


hey Eric, wow u were up early today! lol

yeah guy, just have fun with it and join in on the chats. they say you'll meet someone when u quit looking. ;)

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Sun 06/14/09 08:15 AM

What serial killer mug shot should I put up next?


start at the beginning with jack winking oh wait they never got him

krupa's photo
Sun 06/14/09 08:16 AM
Good morning Tracy! Muah lil mama! Hope you have a good day doll.

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Sun 06/14/09 08:31 AM

I am really confused i guess to the fact that no one ever replies to my messages...? Is this site not for meeting people oR? lol It's not that i expect it, but i have been messaging people for like a month and i get no responses? I guess i'll have to post more pics?


Ever heard of the adage.....

"If at first you don't succeed, try.....try again."

Well, pal, thats the name of the game here!!!!!

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Sun 06/14/09 08:35 AM

I am really confused i guess to the fact that no one ever replies to my messages...? Is this site not for meeting people oR? lol It's not that i expect it, but i have been messaging people for like a month and i get no responses? I guess i'll have to post more pics?


What kind of messages are you writing that are not getting replies?

tracy13's photo
Sun 06/14/09 08:51 AM

Good morning Tracy! Muah lil mama! Hope you have a good day doll.


you too babe. it is HOT today!!! muah back at ya!

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 06/14/09 10:10 AM
People seem to forget that just because a letter/note/email/message-in-a-bottle/smoke signal/whatever is sent, that there is absolutely no obligation whatsoever on the recipients' part to respond.

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Sun 06/14/09 10:23 AM
babies scare me!!!scared shocked scared

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Sun 06/14/09 11:41 AM

Patience bro.

There are lots of reasons someone may or may not respond.

Think of it this way. When you are fishing, you don't cast your lure once...reel it in then say "Well, Hell...No fish in this lake"

I would suggest posting more in the forums. Profiles are nice but, conversations in the forums are a really good way to introduce yourself to alot of people and is an easy going, no pressure way of letting people know what kind of guy you are.

Hell...when I got here I couldn't get the time of day for months!


Same here -- I never got a reply to a first e-mail. So I started posting in the forums. After people get to know you, they'll initiate the thing. Which is better for me, anyway. Except for the fact that they mainly just want to complain about stuff in my profile. But mail is mail.


PATSFAN's photo
Sun 06/14/09 12:43 PM
Welcome to the internet, this is normal!

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Sun 06/14/09 12:44 PM
I always respond to any emails I get...unless it's a creepy serial killer type note...scared

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