Topic: FEMALE ADVICE
jakeybaby1988's photo
Wed 06/17/09 02:36 AM
im lookin for a girl that doesnt mind the fact im a lil clingy and affectionate

any advice?.....or offers

Geckgo's photo
Wed 06/17/09 02:46 AM
Yea, stop being clingy and affectionate,


hahaha, but no really

stop being clingy and affectionate..


LOL, that never gets old, or maybe it does I don't care.

What do you mean by clingy and affectionate? Are we talking like non-stop all the time, public, private, creepy type clingy or you just like sneaking up behind them in the kitchen and giving them a hug?

I find that there's a time and a place for clingy and affectionate and the rest of the time I'm pretty distant, usually too distant is what I get tacked on me. I'm an artist though and I need my me time to do my own stuff and don't need some girl intentionally trying to distract me to draw attention to herself. My rule is that if it interferes with something serious that I'm trying to accomplish, leave me alone, any other time is okay. And there has to be a limit when I'm out in public. I'm more of a mellow and relax kind of guy and like to soak up the scenery and conversate, not just lock lips and hug all the time. If these are the kinds of girls that you keep finding send them my way, and I'll send you all the marshmallow cremepuffs that I find.

My (real) advice, go through the list and look for all the profiles that use phrases/words like "Mr. Right", "Romantic", "chivalry is not dead", or "princess." These are usually the kind of girls that like affection. Just my two bits, now for the slew of posts from angry girls telling me what a jerk I am. Better get out of here before it gets hectic, good thing I go to bed in a couple hours.


Blessings,


The Geckgo

Jtevans's photo
Wed 06/17/09 02:47 AM
get a hooker



she'll do what you want and she'll cost less....

Geckgo's photo
Wed 06/17/09 02:50 AM

get a hooker



she'll do what you want and she'll cost less....


rofl

yea, that too flowers

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/18/09 12:03 PM

im lookin for a girl that doesnt mind the fact im a lil clingy and affectionate

any advice?.....or offers



Please know that most times clingy and affectionate can come across as demanding, possessive and suffercating ohwell

teacheramanda's photo
Fri 06/19/09 04:51 PM
If it is the right girl for you she'll be just as clingy and affectionate toward you.

Muffinski's photo
Sat 06/20/09 03:36 PM
Teacheramanda is right.

You'll find someone who'll be the same to you and won't mind it at all :)

tonysosa1's photo
Sat 06/20/09 03:47 PM
be yourself most of the time women dont know what they want if your to apart they feel unwanted and if your to clingy they feel uncomfortable so dont try to hard to make other people happy bein yourself is being true

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:23 PM

im lookin for a girl that doesnt mind the fact im a lil clingy and affectionate

any advice?.....or offers


Don't ask single people for relationship advice?

Gracy87's photo
Sat 06/20/09 07:49 PM
Hey! waving waving palezzz pick me!!!! Raising hands....:banana: