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Topic: Kinda sad..kinda confused..
Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:33 PM
..Met this seemingly cool guy online. Emailed each other back and forth
for about 1 month...he got busy with work this week and I haven't heard
from him in 3 days...any thoughts? Men in particular, if you have any
comments feel free to let me in on a 'the mind of a man'..ohwell

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Wed 05/16/07 10:36 PM
Aww Maybe he's just really busy at work. Have you asked him when you
contacted him.
I hope it works out.

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Wed 05/16/07 10:37 PM
Since you already know his schedule is hectic, he'll get back to you
after it cools down

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:40 PM
Don't know his schedule...his last email was saying he wasn't sure when
he would check his email...and I know he mentioned b4 that he was moving
today...so maybe he got busy with that too..=o/

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Wed 05/16/07 10:40 PM
Hmmm.
Could be busy, have you noticed any change in the emails? Give the
guy an email. If he reponds ,Okay if not? Move on!

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:42 PM
Weird, I tell myself..not to think and obsess about it so much...fear is
a serious thing..I guess this is showing me I have alot to work on
internally.

seahawks's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:42 PM
well berry, ive met some very sweet people online, with my job i work
long hours sometimes cant get back to people that ive chatted too for
awhile.sometimes its hard to reply n message back etc ,feel like an
asshole not respondin at times but sometimes its not by choice etc.

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:44 PM
Hi boredchick, posion...yea Ima maybe wait till this weekend to send him
a email..

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Wed 05/16/07 10:45 PM
that's a good idea :)

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:46 PM
Yah, I can somewhat relate to the work schedule thing too seahawk..but
really I guess I over exert my efforts with those I feel closer to

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Wed 05/16/07 10:47 PM
why don't you swap numbers?

buttons's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:48 PM
i wouldnt get to tied up with them if its just emails.... until ya meet
then maybe... but pretty much its a waste of time in that sort...

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:50 PM
hmm, good question, he never asked for my number..so I didn't feel
comfortable to ask for his..maybe he just wanted to say somewhat
dettached...ooh boy

mtironroses's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:51 PM
I always believe in gut instinct........... whatever you are feeling
deep inside....., go with that

best wishes to you
flowerforyou

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Wed 05/16/07 10:53 PM
lol berry i think we really make dating hard on ourselves.. but my
advice send him an email be straight up i mean dont send him 40 but
just be like " hey i was thinking about you, heres my number give me a
call i may not be online that much" and in erality you could be sitting
there all day but if he calls then .. no loss.. and if he doesn't hes
got your number for future reference.. i mean really its a win win
situation.. lol

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:54 PM
thanks buttons, you have a point! I just got out of a real serious
relationship couple months back and jumped into the online dating
thing...waay too prematurely

Boomhower25's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:57 PM
Hi Hun.
Not many Like my Input Because sometimes Im too Honest. All I can say
Is I mean well when I speak.
If a Man loves you or desires you he will do all it takes to show It.
Hugs:smile:

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 10:59 PM
thanks mtironroses and sororitygurl. yea, if I don't hear from the guy
by this weekend, Ima email...not sure about the number thing,
lol...kinda old fashion..if he really wants it he'd ask..I guessohwell

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:03 PM
Ya know boomhower, you are right! Very right. Cuz thats the type person
I am...is it wrong, selfish, immature to expect the same in
return...'you reap, what you sow'

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:07 PM
XOXO You guys, thanks to those who responded..now bed time! everyone is
up so late!...But Ima head to bed now. night. Blessings!

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