Topic: Why do people CHEAT!?
Morena350's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:17 PM
(((((lady)))))

boredchick,, I have never been cheated on, (that I know of) and never
cheated on no one, even tho Im sure man do their thing and you would
never know!!!!

SheNerd's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:18 PM
Lack of respect for onesself and one's partner, low self esteem and
boredom are three of the big reasons for cheating, or so I've heard.

no photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:19 PM
exactly morena that's the scary thing! I would have to go inspector
gadget on him! Like lazy said he would have to trustworthy and honest to
begin with.

Who needs extra non-sense in their life?

cascavel good posts :)

no photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:20 PM
LOL I can understand the others shenerd but boredom!?

That is the most pathetic thing I ever heard. If the relationship is
boring you, try 2 things. Try to work it out with exciting new things to
do or it's time to move on.

That can be worked out though!

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:21 PM
you have to have a solid foudation from both ends.. if one end is not
solid it never works.. they cheat because they are lacking soething in
them selves.. it is not the other person it is something that they need
to fullfill that never gets full.

Staynalone's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:23 PM
lol @ lady (bobbit)
There are many and we will never know them all but lack of interest in
the relationship, bordem and lack of courage to leave, fear, financial
stability are a few and most but not all are excuses not reason good or
bad.

no photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:24 PM
So how would you guys cope with it?

Would you stay with that person?

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:24 PM
yes right.. there are no excuses..

LadyOfMagic's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:25 PM
I'm gonna shut up now..the men on this site are already scared of me as
it is..lol..they'll never talk to me now..lol

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:26 PM
nope,, have to move on.. can't live with their sin.. forgive and walk
away..

SheNerd's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:26 PM
No, I wouldn't tolerate cheating. IMHO, that is one of the worst
character flaws a person can have.

Staynalone's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:26 PM
They can't all be worked no matter how hard one tries. In relationships
like that most are one sided. And it's hard to work that out.

no photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:28 PM
I know I couldn't tolerate it. I would forgive because the Bible says
"forgive others so God will forive you."

Then I would walk away

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:29 PM
she is right.. you can't fix your partner..

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:29 PM
and you have to forgive..

no photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:30 PM
Men cheat for sex. Forget that whole "I was lonely crap", it was all
about OPP.

Women cheat for...I don't know. I'm sure some cheat for OPP too. But,
I've heard they sometimes cheat due to cuckoo complex. It works like
this: Find a good provider. Find a good DNA donor. The two don't have
to be the same. The good provider raises the DNA donors child without
ever knowing, you call the good provider cuckold.

Staynalone's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:30 PM
If I was going to work that hard to turn the other cheek and forgive it
wouldn't be in a relationship with a loser that cheated. I couldn't
sleep next to a person after that none the less make love to them.

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:34 PM
yep.. they violated the bond of the relationship.. there for you can
band aid it but nothing can replace the hurt that it caused..

FindMe1113's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:38 PM
But..."Men" arent the only ones who "CHEAT"!...frown

lazyj321's photo
Thu 05/17/07 08:39 PM
hell no, it is both gender..