I really like this guy here on JSH, but I don't know if he is dating
someone or talking to someone, and Im so afraid of finding out, that I
dont even talk to him,, I just keep it as a friends and hardly have
spoken to him,,,,why Im such a scary cat??

That's the beauty of being online... you don't have to physically face
him... just come out and ask him... you can put it in some way like "so
how's the site treating you, found anyone fascinating?" or something...
You can do it Morena!

It's okay to be shy. Don't cry. Hugs.

On his profile does it say he's single? Or what does it say he's looking
for? Friendship or more?

If you want give me his screen name and I'll ask for you.

great idea rozey..yes the luxury of being online it's not like off the
comptuer lol

oo Rozey, you're good!!!

LMAO... why thank you!

ROzey got the answer!!

ding ding ding...

do I get a prize or something?



Good luck Morena... he better be nice!!!

Don't wait too long he might get away. It won't hurt to ask

good luck (((((((hugs))))))

Hi,Moreena, I know you were asking for advice from your lady friends,
but I just want to say, I know it cant be me you are talking about,
since I am too old for you, I am too far away, the not talking to me,
that could fit, Why dont you just ask the guy how he feels, you dont
have to post it in here, because that is strictly between you and him.
Good Luck in comming too a decision.

As the Bible says, 'ask and ye shall receive.' At the very least,
you'll have an answer to your question and a good idea of whether or not
you should pursue things further.

dammmm you guys put it so easy,, but if it was that easy for me
I would have done it already,,, dam I thought I was stronger then this,,
but I like him so much I have dreams about him,, and
Im also afraid of rejection,, that hurts

I rather be rejected anyday online then person...TEARS LOL

Morena... you never know till you try... come on... put your brave suit
on (the halle berry) and go get um!!!!

contact him directly rather than post it. but be careful. i was chatting
to a wonderful guy that was going to be my man forever, and ya know,
somehow forever came to a screeching halt. i think he is going out of
town this weekend with his honey, and said he would get back to me next
week. well, next week might never come. he was going to send me a horse,
and that never came either.

ITs not fair to yourself to keep your feelings bottled up let them out

Mo if he has someone it's not a rejection of you, if he just wants to be
friends it still is not a rejection. Plus I can't think of anyone who
would or could reject you

Just do it hun!

Hey girlfriend if you need me to come over and hold your hand when you
send him an e-mail, all you have to do is ask. I can be there in a half
hour you know that.

I think that will be the best way to find out, especialy if you have
just kept it as friends and haven't hinted at more.
Drop me an e-mail if you want to talk!


((((Morena))))

Morina, there is always a way to get an answer. Opportunity is in the
questions. Have conversation and somewhere in there, there will be an
opportunity to ask hintful questions.

And if that doesn't work for you, then pay close attention to those that
may be his friends...then ask one of them. Check profiles for friends
lists.

I know that it is rather easy for me to figure out whether someone here
is with someone or not. It is a little harder here in this forums than
the one I was used too though.

But, still; where there is a will....Take advantage of a thread to bring
it out. I mean the answer as to whether he is single or involved, or
sort of, here.

Is he an old member, or a new one? There are lots of folks here that are
fairly new, and will be more than glad to tell you if someone is single.
We just love to see people get together.

Kat