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Topic: LONG term relationship
guitarlady Bev Joined Thu 04/02/09 Posts: 29	Sun 07/19/09 08:22 PM
Has anyone else found that you cannot get someone off the computer long enough to talk on the phone, or meet, or date, let alone develope a (long?) relationship. After 3+ yrs one one date site and 4 mo on another, it seems to me everyone just want to type and then after 3 e-mails and maybe 1 phone call (only 2 men actually followed through and called), poof--they're gone. IF they keep in touch, all they want to do is e-mail. Two men live 14-20 miles from Traverse City and have no moved towards meeting at all. One man I met, but although I've met him twice at music functions (we're both musicians), there has been no such thing as a date. I've tried to set something up that was simple for a few hours--no way, always an excuse. I have given up on him and pretty much on the idea of dating in the T.C., Mich. area. So far I'm not real sure about all this computer dating stuff. There have been no dates!

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Sun 07/19/09 09:24 PM
Has anyone else found that you cannot get someone off the computer long enough to talk on the phone, or meet, or date, let alone develope a (long?) relationship. After 3+ yrs one one date site and 4 mo on another, it seems to me everyone just want to type and then after 3 e-mails and maybe 1 phone call (only 2 men actually followed through and called), poof--they're gone. IF they keep in touch, all they want to do is e-mail. Two men live 14-20 miles from Traverse City and have no moved towards meeting at all. One man I met, but although I've met him twice at music functions (we're both musicians), there has been no such thing as a date. I've tried to set something up that was simple for a few hours--no way, always an excuse. I have given up on him and pretty much on the idea of dating in the T.C., Mich. area. So far I'm not real sure about all this computer dating stuff. There have been no dates! NO I aint met no one yet but I will eventualy im not trying hard enough I gess ,BUT to tell you a little about my self Ive got M.S but its only in my legs and my nerves ok BUT I do like to help people out if they need it ok IM honnest and careing and loveing ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Sun 07/19/09 09:31 PM
Fabo, I would be glad to talk to you! Hello im FABO and I seen where you sed you will talk to me and I think thats cool ok im glad you will talk to me ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Sun 07/19/09 10:12 PM
Hi Fabo! I hope you are doing well! YES im doing well but I dont have no one that I can spend my night with ok, BUT thats ok for now but eventuly I wantsome one ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Sun 07/19/09 10:26 PM
Hi Fabo! I hope you are doing well! YES im doing well but I dont have no one that I can spend my night with ok, BUT thats ok for now but eventuly I wantsome one ok. YES im doing pretty good but I want to be with someone ok, BUT it dont seem like no onewants the same thing that I do,BUT I know it takes some time ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Mon 07/20/09 10:03 AM
Fabo, I would be glad to talk to you! Yes im DOING GOOD BY my self but I do need someone that I can spendmy life with ok so if thats you right me back ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Tue 07/21/09 09:50 PM
Fabo, I would be glad to talk to you! Hello im FABO and I seen where you sed you will talk to me and I think thats cool ok im glad you will talk to me ok. OK im hear and wanting to talk and I havent recieved nothing back from you ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Wed 07/22/09 10:36 AM
Fabo, I would be glad to talk to you! Hello im FABO and I seen where you sed you will talk to me and I think thats cool ok im glad you will talk to me ok . OK im hear and wanting to talk and I havent recieved nothing back from you ok. IM fear for you to talk to but I aint cot nothing back from you and I just want to say I think you are nice andwould like to talk ok .

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Wed 07/22/09 08:51 PM
Fabo, I would be glad to talk to you! Hello im FABO and I seen where you sed you will talk to me and I think thats cool ok im glad you will talk to me ok . OK im hear and wanting to talk and I havent recieved nothing back from you ok. IM fear for you to talk to but I aint cot nothing back from you and I just want to say I think you are nice andwould like to talk ok . WELL im hear so if you want to talk you can ok im by my self to ok.

Sigiere Joined Fri 05/29/09 Posts: 150	Wed 07/22/09 09:21 PM
A man can't keep my interest past yesterday... And you want long term? Ay caramba!!!!! To much huh? Day before yesterday usually works for me.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Thu 07/23/09 08:28 PM
To: "3 wks is too long". I would guess with that attitude and mode of operation your company might become wearing after 3 day. But to each their own and gooood luck! WELL you say 3weeks is to long so thats ok but try 10years ok thats what I didnt haff to but thats the typ of pers son that I am ok so who ever I get with gets all of me ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Fri 07/24/09 09:14 AM
Everyone has a chance at love. Hello im FABO and I want to say I just got out of a 10 year relation ship and I just want to say I dont look no where else but with the one that im with ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Fri 07/24/09 04:51 PM
Yeah, Saturday Night Live was pretty funny. No Adam Sandler tonight, it's an older one. I am in Utah. I don't go to Salt Lake or Utah Lake, their yucky, I go up the mountains to the river and lakes up there. Hello im FABO and I just want to say I think that what you sed was good to me ok what do you like to do if you dont mind me asking that ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Fri 07/24/09 06:06 PM
Hi Fabo good luck None of mine ever get past the waitress Hello im FABO and I want to tell you that I can pess the waiteresses but im not like most guys im looking to be with some one that can be with me and me only and you look like my type ok.

kentuckysmurf Joined Thu 06/04/09 Posts: 3	Fri 07/24/09 06:11 PM
You know I see all the time ladies posting on these singles sites that they are searching for mr right yet are constantly judgeing a book by it's cover. they are wondering why they find mr right when most of the time he is right in front of her face but because he does not pass her eye candy chart she walk right on by

kentuckysmurf Joined Thu 06/04/09 Posts: 3	Fri 07/24/09 06:19 PM
well i can tell you this cause i'm a man stand your ground hun,There are alot of men out there and the ones your desribing are controlling which is a trate you don't want to deal with.you'll never find what your seaching for if you stop searching

kentuckysmurf Joined Thu 06/04/09 Posts: 3	Fri 07/24/09 06:23 PM
that was for guitarlady

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Fri 07/24/09 07:40 PM
hope you find the one you are looking for WELL I like you and your legs now if I can see your face I could make my mind up ok.

fabo123 Joined Sun 05/04/08 Posts: 1746	Fri 07/24/09 08:12 PM
Hi Fabo, I hope your having a great weekend! Keep smiling Yes I am so fer it has been good for me but how has your week went good I hope I am happy with the way its been going for sofer but I need to be with someone ok .

directandwrite Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 6638	Sat 07/25/09 07:46 AM
Fabo, I heard that you were talking to a nice woman from yahoo right? Congratulations! Keep us all updated on how it goes!! We are all wishing the best for you!!!