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Topic: Compliments
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Tue 07/21/09 10:09 AM
Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:17 AM
Jamie, I always take compliments as if they are being offered sincerely. After some communication, you normally figure out if that is true or not.

I tend to compliment people often. For their writing, sense of humor, whatever and I am always sincere.

Hmmmm, maybe I'm just used to people not wanting to get into my pants.laugh :tongue:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:17 AM

Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh


And that, right there, is exactly why a guy like me, who is actually sincere when he pays a compliment to a woman, won't even bother most of the time.

Women have no idea how to appreciate it anymore.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:23 AM
I don't take compliments well, i always think someone is up to no good!

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:24 AM

I don't take compliments well, i always think someone is up to no good!


Gosh, you're HAWT!

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Tue 07/21/09 10:25 AM


Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh


And that, right there, is exactly why a guy like me, who is actually sincere when he pays a compliment to a woman, won't even bother most of the time.

Women have no idea how to appreciate it anymore.


Aw, the plight of the "nice guy."laugh :wink:

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:27 AM


I don't take compliments well, i always think someone is up to no good!


Gosh, you're HAWT!




Let me put my boots on, it's getting thick in herelaugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:29 AM

Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh
bigsmile My hand is already in my pantsbigsmile

metalwing's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:29 AM
I give them. I get them. They lead to discussion and friendship. Sometimes I am ignored, but I never ignore a compliment. Sex is somewhere over the rainbow at this point.

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Tue 07/21/09 10:30 AM



Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh


And that, right there, is exactly why a guy like me, who is actually sincere when he pays a compliment to a woman, won't even bother most of the time.

Women have no idea how to appreciate it anymore.


Aw, the plight of the "nice guy."laugh :wink:


Nope. The plight of the " GOOD " guy because of all the a**holes out there.:tongue:

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Tue 07/21/09 10:31 AM

I don't take compliments well, i always think someone is up to no good!


As usual, I agree with you Patsdrinks ..... not on the receiving end very often surely makes one " gun-shy" as it wereblushing laugh

Dragoness's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:32 AM
I believe one should never assume they mean something other than just a compliment. I have received compliments that never went any farther, someone just wanted to let me know they liked something I said or my pictures or profile.

I am gracious always and never assume there is a motive. Motives will come out if there is one no need to assume one.

tanyaann's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:33 AM
I generally find compliments in an initial email insincere. They usually consist of you're 'hot', 'sexy' or 'cute'.

Those ones I usually play with. I will ask them if they have actually read my profile. They are usually the ones the turn around really quickly and call names.

I had one guy admit that he didn't read my profile. I told him to read the whole thing and then decide if he should be emailing me! He never emailed, but did appear that he at least clicked on my profile.

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:33 AM
Your a bit jaded.. take the compliment, it's probably true.:smile:

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Tue 07/21/09 10:37 AM




Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh


And that, right there, is exactly why a guy like me, who is actually sincere when he pays a compliment to a woman, won't even bother most of the time.

Women have no idea how to appreciate it anymore.


Aw, the plight of the "nice guy."laugh :wink:


Nope. The plight of the " GOOD " guy because of all the a**holes out there.:tongue:


Everytime I hear that expression "good guy" I think of that Chucky doll from the movie, LOL

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Tue 07/21/09 10:38 AM


Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh


And that, right there, is exactly why a guy like me, who is actually sincere when he pays a compliment to a woman, won't even bother most of the time.

Women have no idea how to appreciate it anymore.


I give them, but there are some women out there that don't appreciate them for whatever reason.

robert1652's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:41 AM
I only get ants in the pantslaugh

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Tue 07/21/09 10:42 AM
Now I wonder how men take compliments, since women "don't appreciate them." If someone compliments a man, does he think she's interested, or just being nice?

7z3r05's photo
Tue 07/21/09 10:43 AM

Is it just me or is your intial reaction when someone leaves you a compliment in your email that they just wanna get in your pants?huh

ohwell huh huh


see, i hate that. im a generally sincere person who has no problem giving a compliment, but sometimes when i do the person being complimented gets creeped out or something when i wsa just trying to be nice. oh well.

i dont feel bad about it. it isnt my fault her father beat her with a compliment when she was younger.

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Tue 07/21/09 10:44 AM

Now I wonder how men take compliments, since women "don't appreciate them." If someone compliments a man, does he think she's interested, or just being nice?


I usually figure she's just being nice.

It's tough for me to think that anyone might be interested, so I just take it as being nice.

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