so i posted "the fear of what's next"

and thought i'd update.

i tried to IM him tonight and tried to add him as a friend. in which he has not replied to either.

so there ya have it.

too good to be true?

i'm thinkin so.

i am herebye announcing my candidacy for president of the people who are just here for the forums.

thank you

Socks, maybe he's not been on or didn't have time to accept the friend invite... Don't give up yet darln'...

awww, i'm sorry. well, give him a couple days to accept your request. guys seem to operate on a different time table than we do. and i'm already the president of that, thanks much!

well.. ya see...

when you're online there's a lil greenish button that pops up on your profile saying "ONLINE NOW!"

yeah.

but maybe he's not. i don't know. i'm just a complete pansy at this kinda crap.

Sometimes my puter reboots itself and always goes to yahoo first and them limewire......so he may not have been aware.

Satan lives in my puter......

LOL

get rid of limewire and you won't have that problem. ;p

maybe he forgot to log out? or maybe he's posting in the forums? or maybe hasn't been to the home page yet to see your invite? speaking of which, those should be alerts at the top of the screen, like the mails, don't you think?

anyway, don't freak out yet. i did that once and totally ruined any chances i had with the guy (i probably had zero chance with him anyway, but i really f*cked it up the way i acted, LOL) just relax. give him a few days. if after a while, he doesn't accept the invite or contact you in any way, you know he's not interested and you figure oh well, you had fun.

limewire sucks, i had to uninstall it.

But it lets me download really bad porn!!!

i got a virus from limewire once @!&*^$#@

yeah. i think my brain just kinda melted because it was the first guy in a long time who showed any kind of interest in me locally.

and i keep telling you people...


slsk.. all the way.

calm down.........

do we need breathing exercizes????

Look Rock....What you need to do is put yourself in a really awkward position.....

Just proclaim your love for me....let's get naked...and I swear, midway through fore play..the dude WILL call....

I have been to more than one rodeo baby and that is how it works.

The real trick is, you need to be able to carry on a conversation while I am giving you head.

Not trying to be a prick....just speaking from real life experience.

Don't get bummed out baby. You are definitely a keeper....if the dude is too retarded to see that, then you may have just dodged an ignorant bullet.

i do that all the time- "omg, i think he likes me!!!" and then i ruin it. don't be like me, don't ruin it, LOL

The first step is...........NOT STALKING!!!

omg i dont know if i can handle that sensei!! what ever will i do!!

do you think he'll smell your manmusk all over me!?!? know immediately and make contact? is this like transendental something or other???

dear god help me!!!

:p

oh.. and did you see the art shots i posted a day or so ago!?

now you tell us!

<-----ex stalker

yA Let the guy run to you.........