Topic: Wisdom On Dating
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Tue 08/04/09 01:58 PM
E-Bible: http://etext.lib.virginia.edu/kjv.browse.html

***WHEN COURTING/DATING MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE QUICK TO DIVULGE THEMSELVES TO A POTENTIAL MATE TOO SOON, BECAUSE PEOPLE HIDE THEIR INTENTIONS BUT TIME WILL SHOW THE TRUTH.***

Sirach 6:7: If thou wouldest get a friend, prove him first and be not hasty to credit him. 8: For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will not abide in the day of thy trouble.

***DON’T LET COMPLIMENTS WIN YOU OVER NOR FALL TO A PERSONS BEAUTY; SEEK NOT A MATE FOR THE SOUL PURPOSE OF SEX***

Proveb 31:30: Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

Sirach 25:21: Stumble not at the beauty of a woman, and desire her not for pleasure.

***AN EXAMPLE OF HOW A MAN AND WOMAN SHOULD COME TOGETHER FOR EACH OTHER’S BENEFIT, NOT JUST LUST.***

Tobit 8:4: And after that they were both shut in together, Tobias rose out of the bed, and said, Sister, arise, and let us pray that God would have pity on us. 5: Then began Tobias to say, Blessed art thou, O God of our fathers, and blessed is thy holy and glorious name for ever; let the heavens bless thee, and all thy creatures. 6: Thou madest Adam, and gavest him Eve his wife for an helper and stay: of them came mankind: thou hast said, It is not good that man should be alone; let us make unto him an aid like unto himself. 7: And now, O Lord, I take not this my sister for lush but uprightly: therefore mercifully ordain that we may become aged together. 8: And she said with him, Amen. 9: So they slept both that night.

***DON’T GET CAUGHT UP WITH A PERSON WHO’S SEXUALITY OVER SHADOWS THEIR PERSONALITY.***

1 Timothy 5:6 she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.

***CHOOSE A MATE WITH UNDERSTAND OF THINGS THAT WILL HELP YOU BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE, NOT ACCORDING TO HOW FREAKY THEY ARE.***

Proverbs 12:8: A man shall be commended according to his wisdom: but he that is of a perverse heart shall be despised.

Sirach 37:12: But be continually with a godly man, whom thou knowest to keep the commandments of the Lord, whose, mind is according to thy mind, and will sorrow with thee, if thou shalt miscarry.

***YOU AND YOUR MATE SHOULD BOTH WANT THE SAME THINGS IF YOU EXPECT THE RELATIONSHIP TO LAST.***

Amos 3:3: Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

***UNDERSTAND THAT THE WHOLE POINT OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS TO MAKE YOURSELF A STRONGER PERSON; A TRUE MATE IS A TRUE FRIEND.***

Provebs27:17": Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.

***THE MYSTERY OF MARRIAGE***

Ephesians 5:21: Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. 22: Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23: For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24: Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25: Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26: That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27: That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28: So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29: For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31: For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32: This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33: Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

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Tue 08/04/09 02:03 PM
Edited by Ladylid2012 on Tue 08/04/09 02:12 PM
Proverb 31:30: Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.


I fear nothing..I am woman hear me roar....

Fear is not what I feel when I think of my God.. :heart:

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Tue 08/04/09 02:10 PM
Yea! its not me preaching.. It's not me there is someone else doing it! yea!..

O and Every one, Go get the tape Fireproof. Watch it even if your not religious it will make so much since..

even if you never go to god... it is about so much more then that, see the truth on how to treat your partner...

The lave Dare, I challenge anyone and I mean anyone to do this for 30days to your friends, your boss, or children, even your partner.

Learn how to appreciate them and accept them for who they are..

if you do this.. Then maybe one of you could someday be my partner!..

until this happens.. we are all with out, lonely and well.....

alone!...

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Tue 08/04/09 02:13 PM
oh my noway shouldn't this be moved?

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 08/04/09 02:14 PM

oh my noway shouldn't this be moved?


soon will be.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 08/04/09 02:21 PM
pitchfork

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Tue 08/04/09 02:22 PM
Far too long & religious...but I'm sure there was some wisdom in there somewhere...

Lilypetal's photo
Tue 08/04/09 02:23 PM
Dating advice: ... two words...

Pay Attention

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 08/04/09 02:33 PM

Dating advice: ... two words...

Pay Attention


another two words...

bank account....::wink:

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 08/04/09 02:34 PM


Dating advice: ... two words...

Pay Attention


another two words...

bank account....::wink:


two more

nice butt

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Tue 08/04/09 02:35 PM



Dating advice: ... two words...

Pay Attention


another two words...

bank account....::wink:


two more

nice butt


two more BIG %*@* rofl

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/04/09 02:47 PM
Marriage; an institution of religion. Love; quite the opposite.

Mix the two together and %64 fail in the first five years, marriage is an unnecessary utility to the unfathomable love. Love is true, marriage is just going too far to prove the point. If you love someone, what is the use in marriage in order to "prove" that standing. Marriage destroys more than it helps create, love, kids, family, all disassembled under the veil of love and marriage.

I do not support marriage, love on the other hand I'm all for.

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Tue 08/04/09 02:52 PM

Marriage; an institution of religion. Love; quite the opposite.

Mix the two together and %64 fail in the first five years, marriage is an unnecessary utility to the unfathomable love. Love is true, marriage is just going too far to prove the point. If you love someone, what is the use in marriage in order to "prove" that standing. Marriage destroys more than it helps create, love, kids, family, all disassembled under the veil of love and marriage.

I do not support marriage, love on the other hand I'm all for.


Real love, unconditional love would not require a list of vows... would never require a book for guidance and would never ask what we sometimes ask of each other.