Topic: UPDATE: Kinda sad..kinda confused
Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:08 AM
Hi again!
Just wanted to pop in and let those know who helped me last week what
happened.
The guy emailed me last Thrus. when I went to check my mail that
following Sunday to email him, thats when I saw it.
He asked for my ph # and we spoke on the phone. He said he would call me
back later tonight and I logged on the site and saw him online and
didn't even bother to call me. So, seems like a mind game this guy was
playing. I'll pray for him though. And know that God is protecting me!
:smile:
I'm so done with being miserable because of someone one eles' actions.
It hurts but it'll make me wiser and stronger!
God bless to those who are reading!flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:14 AM
Just because it says they are online doesn't mean they are actually on
the computer doing something on JSH.

More than once I've: logged in, checked email for 5 minutes, then gone
and done other things for TWELVE HOURS before coming back to the
computer - and yet JSH will have told everyone that I was "online" the
whole time.

jenn_82's photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:15 AM
I know just what you are going through it happened to me just about 3
weeks ago or so we were dating for about 2 months and he came to meet me
in person and it was all great but when he went back he almost stopped
calling me and he was still saying I love you but he was also acting so
weird like he was trying to get rid of me well I call him and he got mad
and said that I had an addtiude and hung up on me so i called him back
and told him what I thought and to come and find out he already had
another gilr from this site so I don't know what went wrong but he said
that I was to over bareing so I hope this helps you but I am not sure it
will i just get carried away some times sorry I hope it all works out
for you for the best I will keep you in my prayers

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:19 AM
Good point massaget. I dunno, I already went off and ranted in a message
to the guy..so...

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:24 AM
Thanks jen82. Wow sorry about what happened in your situation! I can
become clingy...I guess that's always been a problem of mine...but ya
know, I wouldn't call it a problem..its a trait! I try not to come on
too strong but ...its like playing games with men...they want what they
think they can't have...and I'm the type to always give to someone! Its
sooo messed up!

Berryboo's photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:26 AM
I'm reading this book and it reads: man's rejection is God's protection!
happy
I am trying my hardest to keep that in mind! Hope that helps jen82.
I'm off to bed.
Blessings ALLflowerforyou

jenn_82's photo
Wed 05/23/07 12:27 AM
night