100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: When is a relationship considered "serious"? | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
NEVER!!!! even after you think you trust them, i have learned that you can never really trust them!!! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
being with one person exclusively...a giving of your heart,your body.....and for me....an engagement ring...a showing of..taken...a showing of committment..by the giver and reciever..a promise of what is to come......tis the old fashioned way for sure..smiles..teasingbrunette. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When the man says it's serious!
 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When the man says it's serious! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When an accidental fart isn't funny.
 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When he tells me let's move on to the next level and I say "heck not yet"...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When an accidental fart isn't funny.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When I realize they could hurt me.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
i have no idea - apparently.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When he tells me let's move on to the next level and I say "heck not yet"...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When he tells me let's move on to the next level and I say "heck not yet"... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When an accidental fart isn't funny. OMG. Only you babygurl.   (((Haley)))
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When an accidental fart isn't funny. When you're married... I don't know that I ever want to be an 80 year old "girlfriend." |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When an accidental fart isn't funny. OMG. Only you babygurl. (((Haley))) 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
When an accidental fart isn't funny. When you're married... I don't know that I ever want to be an 80 year old "girlfriend."
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
PacificStar48
on
Fri 08/14/09 07:32 PM
|
|
being with one person exclusively...a giving of your heart,your body.....and for me....an engagement ring...a showing of..taken...a showing of committment..by the giver and reciever..a promise of what is to come......tis the old fashioned way for sure..smiles..teasingbrunette. I hate to break it to you Ladies but and engagement ring doesn't necessarily mean you are safe. Most are not that expensive and if they have it polished up you are not going to know if it was their grandma's or the Ex wife's. I can not tell you the number of cons who have figured out and engagement ring will make a woman buckle at the knees and wait a very long time to REALLY get serious. Think about it you are engaged you let your guard down. You stop requireing a condom. And maybe even go on the pill or a diet so you fit your wedding dress. You let them drive your car. You tell them your ATM number or passwords. You leave them alone in your apartment. You tell everyone you are off the market so you are. Most will stay home or away from "hot spots" so it is easy for them to play. Engagement gives them access to your friends and families trust/help. Many female fiance's even extend credit or pay bills so they don't have to work so much or be harrassed about childsupport. TOO OFTEN women will take and engagement ring as Forever Amen and it does not always work out that way. GUYS there is a flip side to this too. Just because someone takes and engagement ring does not mean you can't get hurt equally bad if you let your guard down. Don't buy her next "groom" a wedding gown or a honeyingmoon. Lease and apartment you can not afford on your own. Let her have access to your vehical unless you are well insured. EVER believe that she is REALLY "on the pill". Read down through the warnings above and figure out the gender reverse. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
being with one person exclusively...a giving of your heart,your body.....and for me....an engagement ring...a showing of..taken...a showing of committment..by the giver and reciever..a promise of what is to come......tis the old fashioned way for sure..smiles..teasingbrunette. I hate to break it to you Ladies but and engagement ring doesn't necessarily mean you are safe. Most are not that expensive and if they have it polished up you are not going to know if it was their grandma's or the Ex wife's. I can not tell you the number of cons who have figured out and engagement ring will make a woman buckle at the knees and wait a very long time to REALLY get serious. Think about it you are engaged you let your guard down. You stop requireing a condom. And maybe even go on the pill or a diet so you fit your wedding dress. You let them drive your car. You tell them your ATM number or passwords. You leave them alone in your apartment. You tell everyone you are off the market so you are. Most will stay home or away from "hot spots" so it is easy for them to play. Engagement gives them access to your friends and families trust/help. Many female fiance's even extend credit or pay bills so they don't have to work so much or be harrassed about childsupport. TOO OFTEN women will take and engagement ring as Forever Amen and it does not always work out that way. Too often women will take that 'engagement' and hold you at arms length... Intill it becomes hard to keep trying... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
AB you make my point in spades.
Sad the weight we give a promise not backed up with a signed license. I know people blow off marriages but at least in marriage both parties have some valuable protections. I will be honest I don't know that they are equal. Male or female in today's world I would seriously make myself as "divorce proof" as possible. I am so grateful that I kept some resources for myself alive. If you allow yourself to be bankrupted or unable to care for yourself it really doesn't matter who's fault it is because you are still suffering the same. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
when is a relationship ever..'safe'...I answered the question when do you think it is turns serious....is my own level of..serious....it is very important to do and look all aspects of a relationship...and yourself before going there..and after all is said and done...is it better to have loved and lost or not loved at all?..........
|
|
|
|
|
