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Topic: What would you do???
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Tue 08/25/09 07:42 PM


Yeah, I'm sorry but if someone I married cheated on me clearly shows that person doesn't love you as much as they thought when they said "I Do".

Just to keep it short. I say if you decided to give her a 2nd chance don't get too torn up if she does it again.


See, that was my initial thought. This is why we were seperated for a while. I had decided that she was not worth my time and figured that if she messed up once, she would do it again (u know, "once a cheater, always a cheater") But I am not one to just say "the hell with my vows" My vows were put before GOD and I swore "for better, or for Worse". Call me old fashioned but I DO believe in that.

If your spouse lays with another person, that is a legitimate reason to exit your marriage, even in Gods eyes, the vows were broken. Remeber it also says to love and honor...she did not honor you.
It is your decision and I feel your pain as I have been there. Ultimately I divorced but it took me a while to face the facts.
Good luck!

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