... I shouldn't have to work ... full stop ...

... Much less on a relationship ...

... Has anyone seen my diamond tiara???

Should you have to "make" your relationship work,or should it just work by itself with little effort from those involved?

i don't think there's one person in here that can tell me they didn't have to make their relationship work.. well to u people i say.. no wonder *** is and will remain single..
like someone said earlier u should wanna make it work.. otherwise there's even no point at stay in it.. compromising..caring..consideration of ur partner feelings..pleasing them.. wutever u end up doing to keep the relation going is called working at keeping the relationship alive no way u can do that with lil or no effort..
F.Y.I: rivers don't flow the same way..

There is always " work " to be done in a relationship.

If you don't put in the effort, that's known as taking someone for granted.

That is the best way to kill off a relationship.

If it's work it's no fun. Reationships happen because of who you are and the honesty involved. Working at is work and if the rewards are not what you want it becomes like a chore with little reward.