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For me these words remind me of how i felt losing love.
Do you know whats worth fighting for, when its not worth dying for? Does it take your breath away, and you feel yourself suffocating? Does the pain weigh out the pride? And you look for a place to hide? Did someone break your heart inside? Youre in ruins. - green day I believe the before question is the love stage and the after question is the lost love that left you broken. What is your take? |
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oh sweetie , I have been alone so long now I don't remember.
I don't remember anymore what it felt like when it started or how I felt when it ended... one thing for sure I'm not packing much baggage. 
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For me these words remind me of how i felt losing love. Do you know whats worth fighting for, when its not worth dying for? Does it take your breath away, and you feel yourself suffocating? Does the pain weigh out the pride? And you look for a place to hide? Did someone break your heart inside? Youre in ruins. - green day I believe the before question is the love stage and the after question is the lost love that left you broken. What is your take? I once loved...I lost it, you literally are in ruins... |
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Edited by
munchiebellic
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You eventually learn how to dig yourself out of the ruins, but it still hurts all the same.
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You eventually learn how to dig yourself out of the ruins, but it still hurts all the same. Whatever you tell yourself, personally...once ruin, always ruin... |
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You eventually learn how to dig yourself out of the ruins, but it still hurts all the same. Whatever you tell yourself, personally...once ruin, always ruin... you don't think we can ever be un ruined after this happens? |
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You eventually learn how to dig yourself out of the ruins, but it still hurts all the same. Whatever you tell yourself, personally...once ruin, always ruin... you don't think we can ever be un ruined after this happens? Thats like saying once broken alway broken. I do believe a piece of you goes with whom ever you love and lose. You are never whole again. But you do get to love again. |
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You eventually learn how to dig yourself out of the ruins, but it still hurts all the same. Whatever you tell yourself, personally...once ruin, always ruin... you don't think we can ever be un ruined after this happens? Thats like saying once broken alway broken. I do believe a piece of you goes with whom ever you love and lose. You are never whole again. But you do get to love again. Well it changes us, but I think it should. We should come out of each heart break a bit wiser, maybe more caring... hopefully something good, not just ruined forever. jmo 
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Okay, I gotta post. I don't care how much you loved someone, they do not take anything away when they leave. You are compleat. Always have been and always will be. Yes, you may be sad for a while. But you aren't missing anything. You can still love again. Unless you're chicken. Love isn't for sissys.
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Okay, I gotta post. I don't care how much you loved someone, they do not take anything away when they leave. You are compleat. Always have been and always will be. Yes, you may be sad for a while. But you aren't missing anything. You can still love again. Unless you're chicken. Love isn't for sissys. Sure, or logical. From a logical standpoint I didn't like how it felt when I lost it, why would I risk putting myself through that again? Sure I'm not missing anything, but I definitely don't want to go through it again...why the hell put myself right in front of the headlights once more? Look, if you want to love again after losing love...go right ahead, but don't chastise me because I choose not too. |
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Okay, I gotta post. I don't care how much you loved someone, they do not take anything away when they leave. You are compleat. Always have been and always will be. Yes, you may be sad for a while. But you aren't missing anything. You can still love again. Unless you're chicken. Love isn't for sissys. Sure, or logical. From a logical standpoint I didn't like how it felt when I lost it, why would I risk putting myself through that again? Sure I'm not missing anything, but I definitely don't want to go through it again...why the hell put myself right in front of the headlights once more? Look, if you want to love again after losing love...go right ahead, but don't chastise me because I choose not too. 
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IMHO the pain I felt when love was lost is not so bad as to wipe away the joy I felt while in love. I even loved to pain.
But, my point is that we are not missing some soul mate or perfect match or something. We do not have to be in love to be complete. |
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IMHO the pain I felt when love was lost is not so bad as to wipe away the joy I felt while in love. I even loved to pain. But, my point is that we are not missing some soul mate or perfect match or something. We do not have to be in love to be complete. agreed..... We can never really give ourselves to another if we are not complete to begin with, needing them to complete us is not love, it is just simply a need.
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IMHO the pain I felt when love was lost is not so bad as to wipe away the joy I felt while in love. I even loved to pain. But, my point is that we are not missing some soul mate or perfect match or something. We do not have to be in love to be complete. I dont know about you, but i have two pieces missing from my heart. I still love both my ex husband and my ex fiance. That part will never go away for me. But that doesnt mean that i wont give my all to a new loving relationship. True love, in its purest form does change you and when you lose that it breaks you. I guess that comes from being able to give your whole heart to a relationship. The way i see it is i love them and wish them the best in life, but i dont like the choices we made that caused the relationship to fail. |
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Edited by
Ladylid2012
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IMHO the pain I felt when love was lost is not so bad as to wipe away the joy I felt while in love. I even loved to pain. But, my point is that we are not missing some soul mate or perfect match or something. We do not have to be in love to be complete. I dont know about you, but i have two pieces missing from my heart. I still love both my ex husband and my ex fiance. That part will never go away for me. But that doesnt mean that i wont give my all to a new loving relationship. True love, in its purest form does change you and when you lose that it breaks you. I guess that comes from being able to give your whole heart to a relationship. The way i see it is i love them and wish them the best in life, but i dont like the choices we made that caused the relationship to fail. Just because it ended doesn't necessarily mean that you or anyone failed..doesn't have to be a failure. Some things just aren't meant to be, people change, situations change, circumstances change. We take the good from it and grow (hopefully) and move on. If you have two pieces missing from your heart how will you be able to share it again....
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I didn't say you wouldn't be changed. I said you are not incomplete.
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Okay, I gotta post. I don't care how much you loved someone, they do not take anything away when they leave. You are compleat. Always have been and always will be. Yes, you may be sad for a while. But you aren't missing anything. You can still love again. Unless you're chicken. Love isn't for sissys. Well said!! You were complete before You are complete after If every friggen man took a piece of me I'd be nothing! Soooo not happening!!!
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