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Topic: rebound issues
Beavis31's photo
Wed 09/09/09 10:59 AM
a woman i know broke up with her BF a few weeks ago.. we been talking alot... ive just been playing it cool.. but how long should i wait to ask her out or should i wait for her to do the asking....

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Wed 09/09/09 11:03 AM
Ooh! Good question...but frankly, I don't have an answer. Some can "fall in love" right away after a break-up & for some, it takes a loooooong time to get over it...& then you run the risk of being delegated to The Friend Zone...sorry I couldn't be much help...ohwell

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:06 AM
How long was she with the guy? How long have you known her?

Beavis31's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:08 AM

Ooh! Good question...but frankly, I don't have an answer. Some can "fall in love" right away after a break-up & for some, it takes a loooooong time to get over it...& then you run the risk of being delegated to The Friend Zone...sorry I couldn't be much help...ohwell


thats exactly what i mean...and if i try and be respectful and give her time some one might ask and i be left out in the cold so to speak...

and thats ok i use to women being no help...JK JK JK ( only humor )

therapy30's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:08 AM
Do the asking wasking and start wart the love bove or whatever...just do it dude.

Beavis31's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:09 AM

How long was she with the guy? How long have you known her?


ive known here about 1 yr... she with him bout three months

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Wed 09/09/09 11:10 AM


Ooh! Good question...but frankly, I don't have an answer. Some can "fall in love" right away after a break-up & for some, it takes a loooooong time to get over it...& then you run the risk of being delegated to The Friend Zone...sorry I couldn't be much help...ohwell


thats exactly what i mean...and if i try and be respectful and give her time some one might ask and i be left out in the cold so to speak...

and thats ok i use to women being no help...JK JK JK ( only humor )



I will say beware of ANY person who can break up & go after someone else in a very short time...I wouldn't trust them or their judgment...

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:10 AM
Tell her how you feel. You might already be friend only material. Hurry!

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:11 AM
Don't ask her out, just tell her how you feel.

TxsSun's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:11 AM
I am not good at giving the "time period" advice, however, rebounds are never good!!!!! noway noway

therapy30's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:12 AM
I agree with Miss Liilith:smile:

Beavis31's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:14 AM

Don't ask her out, just tell her how you feel.


i think i gonna go with that.. open cant hurt... unless she freaks..LOL

Dragoness's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:17 AM
Rebounds are very very bad. I agree with Lilith on this one also. Talk to her and tell her you are interested in more than just friendship if she is willing and if she hesitates or says she is not ready, then leave it be.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:19 AM
It depends

My man could be considered a rebound

But our love was there for a loooong time yet we never acknowledged it


lilith401's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:23 AM
She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved.

Beavis31's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:24 AM

It depends

My man could be considered a rebound

But our love was there for a loooong time yet we never acknowledged it




well your very nice so you deserve it...

Beavis31's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:28 AM

She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved.


yea i kinda feel she was grasping for what she wanted more than what he gave her....

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Wed 09/09/09 11:34 AM


She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved.


yea i kinda feel she was grasping for what she wanted more than what he gave her....


go for it my man, love shouldn't be about a strategy, express how you feel. should your heart get broken in the process,well... some one will come and mend it. just hope that the "some one" gets there before time does.

Beavis31's photo
Wed 09/09/09 11:41 AM



She may have not really been into the guy, which would mean no rebound involved.


yea i kinda feel she was grasping for what she wanted more than what he gave her....


go for it my man, love shouldn't be about a strategy, express how you feel. should your heart get broken in the process,well... some one will come and mend it. just hope that the "some one" gets there before time does.


thank you ....

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Wed 09/09/09 11:52 AM
do you want to be the rebound guy????huh

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