my daughter moved to tinian back in aug
and there has been a issue that just came about
her partner called and stated that she was in the hospitol for my daughter beat her up and got a cracked head. her partner wants to press charges and i told her no, for what is going to happen with the kids

but this does not sound like my daughter to be abusive

and whats the law over there if your in a abusive relationship

now i have no clue to how and get her and my grandkids back here, or even my grandkids

I believe all cases of domestic abuse should be reported - sorry Queene, jmo

Where is tinian?

what is going to happen with the kids


idk?

but getting them out of a house with abusive partners is probably best for them.

"If children live with hostility, they learn to fight."

its near guam

yes i understand
but i cant see this from my daughter
her ex hubby was abusive and with him she defend herself
but with her partner i just cant see it

I know, sounds irrational, but right now one person is in the hospital with a head wound.

Have you talked to your daughter? if so what did she say?

no i havent, dont even know how to get ahold of her at this time

Queene any word? are your daughter and grandkids ok?? Is your daughter's partner ok?

the last time i talked to my daughter was last week
they were ok then
there 7hours behind but one day ahead so right now it would be about 5am sat morn there
my daughter partner seem ok but stress out for what happen which i can understand.. i called my mom at work and told her. hopefully my daughter or her now ex partner will call again

I'm sorry this must be so hard for you, especially considering the distance and lack of info

I am sorry to hear about everything your going through hun. I pray it all works out for the best. however, in regards to your grandchildren, I am sorry to say you probably do not have any legal rights whatsoever, as I am assuming you are not their legal gaurdian, and they are not in the United States.

my mom called my daughter partner brother but he wasent at the house, but acording to him, they were having a family party and my daughter hit her partner on the head with something
my mom is waiting for my daughter to call so she can talk to her

Dont know the laws there, but wouldnt the next BIOLOGICAL kin be the legally responsible party for the kids, if this 'partner' has not legally adopted them?

my daughter partner is a female she in a gay relationship and her partner has no legal rights to my grandkids.
next biologial kin would be either me, my sisters or my mom, and my mom has already stated she would take them.. but the problem is how would we get them back over here

That's the problem in a nutshell. I don't know anything at all about the laws over where your daughter is at. Best case scenario, the local officials would probably work through the American Embassy in order to send the children to you or your mom. Worst case the kids would be beggars on the street (I highly doubt that would be the case though,a s I don't think this is a third world country or anything like that correct?). In the middle, their government might step in and say the children are here, their mother is a citizen, or has been living here, so they will go into some kind of foster care program over there.

As I said though, I do not know the laws there, especially concerning extradition or custody. I will continue to keep this in my prayers for you though.

good news
i just talk to my daughter, everything seem to be ok now
they were having a family party and my daughter had 2 beers and a streght shot of whiskey. and she doesnt even remember what happen or why she did that.(sounds like she blacked out)
and her partner came back the next day and said she didnt want her to leave.

I am glad to hear it, though I hope your daughter and her partner have the sense to remove alcohol from further events, as obviously it is something your daughter can not handle.